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- RE: 10 Print "Hello World" By SeekingChange - 5 hours ago
Interesting introduction! Not sure I followed all the emojis but glad you are here! If I read this correctly, between...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/05/2019 By SLS - 5 hours ago
Private outdoor sex is a big one for me but the most recurring fantasy is sex without a condom. Kids...
- RE: Which Hollywood Christmas movies do you think hold to your Christian beliefs By Nova - 7 hours ago
Top 3 favorite Christmas movies for me are Muppet Christmas Carol, Arthur Christmas, and The Princess Bride. None of those...
- RE: Which Hollywood Christmas movies do you think hold to your Christian beliefs By Duchess - 8 hours ago
Nothing Christmas-y is coming immediately to mind, but The Father Brown Mysteries are exceptional in my opinion. Actually, some people...
- RE: Finding sexy time while parenting young kids By Ron - 8 hours ago
When the kids were little, it wasn't a problem, but when they got older it was hard to find time...
- RE: Is Mommy and Daddy were just play wrestling By Ron - 8 hours ago
Our kids asked a time or two when they were young what was going on, my wife very politely told...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/05/2019 By Duchess - 9 hours ago
A whole night of coming back for seconds, thirds, fourths, etc. barely dozing in between.
- RE: Edging? By HerHis - 10 hours ago
I just put it in our Sexy Advent Calendar .. can't wait for that day to show up!
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- RE: For the ladies, what gets you out of your head? By SecondMarge - 11 hours ago
Very difficult because something always needs doing.
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 9/24/2019 By SecondMarge - 11 hours ago
Sadly I have and from people I have spoken to all women have.
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 7/16/2019 By SecondMarge - 11 hours ago
Having been a widow, I did not buy one. But did laugh at the one in the Woody Allen movie...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 9/26/2019 By SecondMarge - 11 hours ago
Day the Earth Stood Still
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/05/2019 By SecondMarge - 11 hours ago
I bet if everyone related their true most risque fantasy the screen on our computers would smoke. It would likely...
- RE: Which Hollywood Christmas movies do you think hold to your Christian beliefs By SecondMarge - 11 hours ago
It's A Wonderful Life is the classic Christmas movie but some think its too intense for kids.
- RE: At what age do you think your child should know? By SecondMarge - 11 hours ago
I think many of us waited too long and our kids just sat there thinking they knew all this years...
- RE: Is Mommy and Daddy were just play wrestling By SecondMarge - 12 hours ago
I suppose if they asked if they could wrestle too it would lead to a more difficult conversation.
- RE: Which Hollywood Christmas movies do you think hold to your Christian beliefs By SecondMarge - 12 hours ago
I watched The Bishop's Wife with David Niven and Loretta Young the other day on the old movies channel. It...
- RE: Which Hollywood Christmas movies do you think hold to your Christian beliefs By Nova - 12 hours ago
It’s not specifically a Christmas movie, but I’ve always thought that the priest at the beginning of Les Miserables is...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/05/2019 By Inviting - 13 hours ago
Well, my sexual fantasies are exactly that, "fantasies". But, if I'm being honest, watching my wife with another man, and...
- RE: Is Mommy and Daddy were just play wrestling By Slipthegrasp - 13 hours ago
I assume your not deep in the throws of passion with that response? If your child associates something we do...
- RE: Which Hollywood Christmas movies do you think hold to your Christian beliefs By Slipthegrasp - 13 hours ago
Is Ben Hur (1959) a Christmas movie? It does have that part at the beginning with the Nativity scene. it...
- RE: Finding sexy time while parenting young kids By Tim - 15 hours ago
My kids range from 8-17. It's gotten harder as they've aged. When they are little, they go to bed!
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/05/2019 By Tim - 15 hours ago
My wife really wanting sex, then quickly and very vocally reaching orgasm from regular PIV sex.
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- RE: Was tryin2dobetter, now leaving the past behind By SecondMarge - 16 hours ago
Losing a job is a high stress event. People make poor decisions under stress. For the easily addicted just a...
- RE: How to get more points to reply to posts By SecondMarge - 17 hours ago
Click on the How TO above to see information helpful in answering this and other questions
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- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/05/2019 By SecondMarge - 17 hours ago
My husband being healthy enough to take me to bed and satisfy both of us.
- RE: At what age do you think your child should know? By one_woman_man - 17 hours ago
As has been noted, the age will vary from child to child. For us, the main factor we considered was...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/05/2019 By Tracker - 17 hours ago
I do not engage in sexual fantasies no real reason to do so really. Years ago maybe. But with impossible...
- RE: Some wives don't want to be compared to an appliance... By David - 17 hours ago
Comparison to kitchen appliances wouldn't go down well in our household. I think that as a general rule, women do...
- RE: What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life? By one_woman_man - 17 hours ago
Going to bed at the same time as DW (also means going to bed at a reasonable time) Meeting DW's...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/05/2019 By one_woman_man - 17 hours ago
Private outdoor sex!
- RE: What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life? By tentsofpurple - 19 hours ago
Going to bed at a decent hour before I'm completely exhausted. Setting aside Sunday afternoons as family "nap" time, having...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/04/2019 By tentsofpurple - 19 hours ago
I don't think I ever really wondered enough to formulate my own theory on it, up until it occurred to...
- RE: Finding sexy time while parenting young kids By newwifenewlife - 22 hours ago
Door locks...naps...early bed times...put on a favorite video...bribery...and “mommy & daddy are gonna go clean their room”.
- RE: At what age do you think your child should know? By Duchess - 1 day ago
Every kid is different and you have to pay close attention to when each individual is ready for AND in...
- RE: Finding sexy time while parenting young kids By Duchess - 1 day ago
@EECOM You have my sympathy. As Christians who are exhorted to learn contentment and to creatively adapt to less than...
- RE: Finding sexy time while parenting young kids By EECOM - 1 day ago
We're still struggling with this very thing, our kids are 5 and 6 and are also co-sleepers, still working on...
- RE: Some wives don't want to be compared to an appliance... By Crazydaddy - 1 day ago
Lol...when we had our oldest child I was an animal science major and was taking a really interesting cattle production...
- RE: Finding sexy time while parenting young kids By Crazydaddy - 1 day ago
We put a lock on the door. The kids have always been free to knock, and we've been interrupted, but...
- RE: Some wives don't want to be compared to an appliance... By Oldbear - 1 day ago
Sometimes us guys are compared to hardware - doornails, that is!
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/04/2019 By Oldbear - 1 day ago
Women had babies and men didn’t - I just took it on face value without wondering why or how. Such...
- RE: Finding sexy time while parenting young kids By SeekingChange - 1 day ago
We are past raising young kids, but am getting some flashbacks with grandkids. 1. Early bedtimes. 2. Use of naptimes....to...
- RE: What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life? By SeekingChange - 1 day ago
Cutting off cable/satellite.... it's amazing how much of a time waster TV was/is.
- RE: At what age do you think your child should know? By Purple10 - 1 day ago
Children's mind are very innocent and fragile. My parents didn't explain the details until I was in my late teens...
- RE: Finding sexy time while parenting young kids By Wheat48 - 2 days ago
It has gotten harder as they have gotten older, they go to bed after us! Our teenagers are supposed to...
- RE: Finding sexy time while parenting young kids By Slipthegrasp - 2 days ago
Put a lock on the bedroom door.
- RE: At what age do you think your child should know? By Slipthegrasp - 2 days ago
A sexual discussion with a child should begin when they area able to handle it and that would vary from...
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- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/04/2019 By one_woman_man - 2 days ago
We spent a lot of time on a relative's farm. I knew that baby horses came from mommy horses. So,...
- RE: Returning By one_woman_man - 2 days ago
Welcome! Good to have you with us! I'm pleased to hear God has provided an incredible wife for you!!
- RE: Returning By MiddleAgeMarriedGuy - 2 days ago
Welcome back! Is bjj in your handle is for Brazilian Jiujitsu?
- RE: At what age do you think your child should know? By Nova - 2 days ago
Speaking as someone who doesn’t and isn’t going to have children, I know that I wouldn’t want my kids learning...
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- RE: Finding sexy time while parenting young kids By Duchess - 2 days ago
It was easier when DD was younger and we enforced the bedtime. She was always a good sleeper and pretty...
- RE: How to get more points to reply to posts By SeekingChange - 2 days ago
Just use the answer feature and do an @username, that's the best way for anyone to see your response. Comments...
- RE: Audio encouragement By SecondMarge - 2 days ago
I female friend of mine had a video disc with a doctor, sexual therapist explaining sexual positions while a couple...
- RE: How to get more points to reply to posts By Dale - 2 days ago
Posting and responding to questions is the best way to gain points. 🙂
- RE: Finding sexy time while parenting young kids By SecondMarge - 2 days ago
My husband had no interest in me at first. After that with only one child it was not a problem...
- RE: How to get more points to reply to posts By ALL_IN - 2 days ago
Look on the left of the screen where it says "badges"...also...did you ever introduce yourself when you joined?
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/04/2019 By Duchess - 2 days ago
My mom felt she had not had enough information early enough, so I think she over-compensated a bit by educating...
- RE: What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life? By Ron - 2 days ago
Two things, one like Oldbear, enjoy tender sex and not always striving to rush to the orgasm or even orgasm...
- RE: Some wives don't want to be compared to an appliance... By Brynna - 2 days ago
I have never liked the thought of being a slow cooker. Thankfully, I don't think DH knows that women are...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/04/2019 By Brynna - 2 days ago
All I know is at the ripe old age of 12, a mentally handicapped friend told me that girls my...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/04/2019 By Slipthegrasp - 2 days ago
I don't think I ever thought about it as with a lot of things. My world at that age was...
- RE: Some wives don't want to be compared to an appliance... By SecondMarge - 2 days ago
I have heard most husbands are like microwaves, always ready and done in 30 seconds.
- RE: Some wives don't want to be compared to an appliance... By Duchess - 2 days ago
Slow cookers are great, but you have to remember that there is a perfect done time and if it is...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/04/2019 By arhunt - 2 days ago
I remember believing if married people just “willed” it, a baby would form. I then asked my mom around age...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By HerHis - 2 days ago
Okay, in the interest of not repeating the same things that everyone else is saying (because I think you've covered...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/04/2019 By hoosier52 - 2 days ago
I remember seeing pregnant women and knowing babies came from their bellies. But no idea about how they got pregnant...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/04/2019 By SeekingChange - 2 days ago
I have no recollection of giving it much thought.
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/04/2019 By SecondMarge - 2 days ago
God sent them via stork.
- RE: Some wives don't want to be compared to an appliance... By SecondMarge - 2 days ago
That would turn me into a pressure cooker ready to blow my top.
- RE: Some wives don't want to be compared to an appliance... By SeekingChange - 2 days ago
I know I am that way much of the time. I think it depends on where I am personally and...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/04/2019 By ALL_IN - 2 days ago
You might have a hard time getting any "real" answers for this question...If people truly remember stuff like that, they...
- RE: Some wives don't want to be compared to an appliance... By tentsofpurple - 2 days ago
I like flirting but flirting that is blunt, sexual innuendos, explicit descriptions if what he wants to do to me...
- RE: Are you an open book? By Ron - 2 days ago
I am an open book, I'll tell my wife anything. My wife I am not sure if she is really...
- RE: Some wives don't want to be compared to an appliance... By Doug - 2 days ago
Well, the good news is that you didn't compare her to a dish washer.
- RE: What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life? By Oldbear - 2 days ago
Relishing intimacy with each other. Enjoying sex in many ways; tenderly, with or without orgasm, focusing on the pleasure of...
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By Oldbear - 2 days ago
The four (4) disciplines pointed out by @SC are superb and are shared disciplines by Mrs. Oldbear and me.Regarding being...
- RE: What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life? By HisGirl - 2 days ago
I really like this question. It actually has me thinking, do I need to adopt some good habits to improve...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By Brynna - 2 days ago
Everything that most everyone has posted. I sure am glad I'm not the only one thinking that way!
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By Epaminondas - 2 days ago
Violent bdsm with all the leather and whips and spikes and such.
- RE: What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life? By marnold21 - 2 days ago
Congrats on the weight loss! I love exercising with my wife, as well. I have been trying to initiate more...
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By HisGirl - 2 days ago
I think communing with God through the day is important but I find that some focused time in the morning...
- RE: What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life? By Inviting - 2 days ago
Assume you are having sex when you go to bed
- RE: The wolves... By 69greyshades - 2 days ago
There are a few wolves... as many already pointed out, some of them are using PMs, and a few of...
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By rkitek - 2 days ago
I think many Christians put too many rules in place concerning prayer. Posture, positioning of the hands, head bowed, and...
- RE: The wolves... By SeekingChange - 2 days ago
@69greyshades. I just saw your comment to ALL_IN's answer and I wish you would have written that as an “answer”...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/02/2019 By Tantalum - 3 days ago
One day when I was away visiting my parents, she sent me a text message saying "Last night I woke...
- RE: Are you an open book? By willinghusband - 3 days ago
I was having a very similar thought and thought about posting it. There is a marriage study that my wife...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By Slipthegrasp - 3 days ago
Rimming, S&M/Dom sex - not for us.
- RE: Hello! By Slipthegrasp - 3 days ago
Welcome, I hear your struggle and wish good things for you, both.
- RE: What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life? By Slipthegrasp - 3 days ago
Earlier to bed and showering every night, well except for these dead of winter nights. Prayer more often and being...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By Twue_Wuv - 3 days ago
Anal. We all have invisible signs on our butts that read, "Exit Only. Do Not Enter."
- RE: Are you an open book? By Slipthegrasp - 3 days ago
I also like your metaphor. No, I'm not an open book to her. But we have worked very hart at...
- RE: Gonna stop using the toy By David - 3 days ago
Sounds like you've made a wise decision. Remember that there aren't necessarily "right" or "wrong" answers, the important thing is...
- RE: What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life? By Duchess - 3 days ago
The five minute rule: How we treat each other in the first five minutes we are together after being apart...
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By Duchess - 3 days ago
Thank you all for sharing! Keep 'em coming!
- RE: Which is easier to deal with, "can't" or "won't"? By PaulB - 3 days ago
Early in our marriage when we were not having much sex I saw it as "can't". Technically she could have,...
- RE: Are you an open book? By Duchess - 3 days ago
I agree with OWM's take on the metaphor: we are each an open book to the other but there are...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By Duchess - 3 days ago
tentsofpurple and OWM pretty much covered it for me, and arhunt summarized it nicely: it is a turnoff when people...
- RE: What Good Habits Have Improved Your Sex Life? By SeekingChange - 3 days ago
Going to bed earlier. Trying to be up in our room by 8:30-9:00, allows for time for us to talk...
- RE: Are you an open book? By Elevation - 3 days ago
I am an open book....if my DW doesn't want to explore or read said book then I have no control...
- RE: Was tryin2dobetter, now leaving the past behind By MiddleAgeMarriedGuy - 3 days ago
Hi everyone. Thanks for the warm welcome 😊. I very much appreciate it.
- RE: Are you an open book? By one_woman_man - 3 days ago
I've been considering your metaphor - an open book. Seems even when a book is open, not all that is...
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By one_woman_man - 3 days ago
Over the years I have used various methods. I have read through the Bible multiple times. Sometimes I journaled. Other...
- RE: Are you an open book? By Inviting - 3 days ago
Great question SecondMarge! We are now at a point where she knows all of my sexual fantasies and I know...most...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By arhunt - 3 days ago
Anything involving urination/defecation or acting like an animal. In short, I get turned off when the spouses aren’t treated like...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By one_woman_man - 3 days ago
Anything that involves pain or humiliation. I agree, anything with feces or urine. Or animals.
- RE: Hello! By one_woman_man - 3 days ago
Welcome! Thanks for joining us and sharing a bit of your story. May you find helpful advice and support here...
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By Brynna - 3 days ago
Nice question and good answers. This is something I have struggled with for years. I also am a perfectionist in...
- RE: Gonna stop using the toy By SecondMarge - 3 days ago
How much can one use a toy without having an orgasm?
- RE: Gonna stop using the toy By rkitek - 3 days ago
If it hasn't been suggested already, try getting yourself close with the toy, and then let your husband take you...
- RE: Gonna stop using the toy By hoosier52 - 3 days ago
We faced some of that same issue. However, if DH is using the toy on you, it's not the toy,...
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By rkitek - 3 days ago
We keep a Bible and devotionals in the kitchen. I read the Scripture and devotional while I eat my breakfast. ...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By SeekingChange - 3 days ago
I have understanding of this, but it's a personal instant turn-off... a submissive man (which pegging falls under that.)
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By Elevation - 3 days ago
Cuckholding...I just don't understand why husband or wives allow this to happen...ever....Truly there is no fear of God....
- RE: Hello! By SeekingChange - 3 days ago
Welcome! I know there are several women here, and husbands who are marrried to wives, who have a similar background....
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By SeekingChange - 3 days ago
Christ IS my life (Col. 3:4). He's not just my #1 on a priority list. I am in Him and...
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- RE: Hello! By arhunt - 3 days ago
@SecondMarge No, I’m a female. My husband would appreciate the joke though 🙂 @ALL_IN It’s both but mainly physical. I...
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By SecondMarge - 3 days ago
no pee or poop that is disgusting. Anything involving kids is out of bounds. Feet I don't get. Dominating I...
- RE: Hello! By SecondMarge - 3 days ago
Hello, if you are male being hard is a good thing. They say if you start with a joke people...
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- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By ALL_IN - 3 days ago
Everything tentsofpurple just said...and I would add fake rape to that list
- RE: Today's Question(s) of the Day for 12/03/2019 By tentsofpurple - 3 days ago
Pegging, anything with feces, baby play or whatever its called where an adult wears diapers and acts like an infant.
- RE: Heated blanket By newwifenewlife - 3 days ago
No need for it, wife has hot flashes enough to keep us both warm....so while she comes to bed in...
- RE: Gonna stop using the toy By Ron - 3 days ago
As a husband, it wouldn't bother me if my wife had an orgasm using a toy or if it was...
- RE: Gonna stop using the toy By newwifenewlife - 3 days ago
That’s very kind and thoughtful. As a man, I can appreciate that thought. I'll admit I get great pleasure and...
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By HusbandOfVine - 3 days ago
Keeping close to God? Working the night shift at a grocery store (that isn't open 24 hours) gives me a...
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By zephyr - 3 days ago
I hear you. I have discovered over the years that "devotions" is not necessarily equivalent to "read your Bible every...
- RE: Have you ever questioned your "call"? What do/did you do when you do/did? By zephyr - 3 days ago
I think of Paul writing to Timothy, it's one of my favorite passages: 2Ti 1:3 I thank God whom I...
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By DoveGrey - 3 days ago
Wow, I've been thinking about posting something along these lines. It's a challenge for me to remain steeped in the...
- RE: Was tryin2dobetter, now leaving the past behind By DoveGrey - 3 days ago
Welcome back! There are a lot of false teachers out there. I'm glad the Holy Spirit guided you through it.
- RE: How, specifically, do you maintain your connection to the Vine? By Duchess - 3 days ago
To answer my own question: for the last couple years I have been filling a hard-back journal, one page front...
- RE: Prayers By Scott+Zelda - 3 days ago
"I feel like every single major area of life needs significant work..." This topic came up in my men's group...
- RE: Was tryin2dobetter, now leaving the past behind By Duchess - 3 days ago
Since I never made it to the old board, good to meet you! Thank you for sharing. And what a...
- RE: Gonna stop using the toy By one_woman_man - 3 days ago
That's probably a good idea. Hopefully your first O will come soon and that you both will feel really blessed!!
- RE: Heated blanket By PaulB - 3 days ago
Even better, get a heated mattress pad. Instead of putting most of the heat into the room, it heats you!...
- RE: Was tryin2dobetter, now leaving the past behind By Slipthegrasp - 3 days ago
MAMG, Praise the Lord for His blessings! Job 5:19 (NASB95) 19 “From six troubles He will deliver you, Even in...
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- RE: Was tryin2dobetter, now leaving the past behind By one_woman_man - 3 days ago
Welcome! Nice to have you join us!
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- RE: Was tryin2dobetter, now leaving the past behind By SeekingChange - 3 days ago
So glad to have you here! Thanks for sharing your story, I know many of us can relate. Keep fighting...
- RE: Have you ever questioned your "call"? What do/did you do when you do/did? By LuckyInLove - 3 days ago
I often questioned being a SAHM so that my husband could pursue his chosen career, which meant 60 hour work...
- RE: Wife says touching herself "doesn't do anything" By MiddleAgeMarriedGuy - 4 days ago
"Now, I know physiologically, this is not true. She’s taken herself to O for me before. I know she can....
- RE: Just FYI By peachrings - 4 days ago
@ Marge - The shepherd's job is to protect their flock. It's not hateful for a shepherd to attack wolves. ...