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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By Duchess - 20 mins ago

  My parents met my DH as just one of my group of friends the first time, but we were already...

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By mcgruff - 3 hours ago

  My DW had been my sister's roommate in college, so my parents actually met my wife before I did. My...

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By Selkie - 4 hours ago

  My experiences are unusual, I guess. Because my husband and I were friends for several years before we started dating...

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By newwifenewlife - 6 hours ago

  My parents welcomed my wife as their daughter and part of the family right from the start...which is what I...

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By LBD - 7 hours ago

  When I first met MIL, she was accepting. FIL, not quite. When it became evident that we were getting serious,...

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  RE: The gospels and being with your spouse in Heaven By LBD - 7 hours ago

  @slipthegrasp - whether one chooses to say the parallels are allegorical or just analogous, doesn't matter to me.  I would...

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  RE: Full length bullet vibe? By Happily married - 7 hours ago

  Like @Scott, I would be interested in this as well. My wife prefers the wand and finds it to be...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By MoreBlessed - 9 hours ago

  I am much louder than he is, all the time!

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  RE: Full length bullet vibe? By MoreBlessed - 9 hours ago

  I like the Lelo Mona shape because it’s easy to hold.

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By luvabug99 - 10 hours ago

  My mom met my future wife after a school dance. I’d taken a different girl (just as friends), and we...

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  RE: The gospels and being with your spouse in Heaven By Eleven0clock - 10 hours ago

  @slipthegrasp I am always happy to be among believers as they disagree so gently! I’m trying to understand your point...

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By LuckyInLove - 10 hours ago

  A question that opens up old wounds, but here goes . . . My Dad, who's been gone a year...

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By Brynna - 10 hours ago

  My parents were rather cold towards DH. They knew one of his brothers really well and didn't like him very...

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By Tim - 11 hours ago

  I think all of the parents seemed to approve of us at the initial meeting. Don't remember any issues at...

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By Happily married - 11 hours ago

  We met both sets of parents the same day at different times.  My in-laws needed to store a vehicle for...

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By TinyTim - 11 hours ago

  My dad was open and welcoming but my mom was friendly but cold. This chill lasted until we got married....

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By SeekingChange - 11 hours ago

  My parents first met him at a parents weekend in college.  He hung out with us for the weekend, and...

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  RE: 05/28/2020 - Today's Question of the Day By Slipthegrasp - 11 hours ago

  Both sets of parents were joyful to simply very encouraging.  They have  passed on now, but have always had a...

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  RE: The gospels and being with your spouse in Heaven By Slipthegrasp - 12 hours ago

  11oc and LBD, I understand your points, well made.  But to call marriage an  allegory of our relationship with Christ...

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  RE: Diagnosed with subclinical fracture/possible Peyronie's disease By Oldbear - 13 hours ago

  Here are two articles regarding ‘penis fracture’ and Peyronies. https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/sexual-health/expert-answers/penis-fracture/faq-20058154 https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/peyronies-disease/symptoms-causes/syc-20353468    

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  RE: The gospels and being with your spouse in Heaven By LBD - 14 hours ago

  It is a great mystery indeed. But I am confident in one thing, God will be taking care of all...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By Olorin - 16 hours ago

  Husband here. I am deliberately vocal during the pre-O phase to let DW know I am enjoying what she is...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By C. Joseph - 18 hours ago

  Well, me but I need to hear her in order for me to slow down at a high stimulation point...

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  RE: Full length bullet vibe? By Scott+Zelda - 21 hours ago

  I will be following this thread with interest, as we've been thinking of ways to get Zelda highly pleasured during...

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  RE: Diagnosed with subclinical fracture/possible Peyronie's disease By MoreBlessed - 23 hours ago

  It is always worth a second (or even third) opinion for something that you feel strongly about. Please try not...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By Crazydaddy - 1 day ago

  DW is more audible during foreplay, sex, and O. Seems to be more natural for her. I have to actually...

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  RE: QOTD - Celebrity Crushes By MQ - 1 day ago

  [I can't post a comment in response to sd595 for some reason, so I'm posting it as an answer] @sd595:...

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  RE: Post sex cleaning By Duchess - 1 day ago

  Until a recent unfortunate change in our habit (which we are trying to reset, but have not so far succeeded)...

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  RE: The gospels and being with your spouse in Heaven By Eleven0clock - 1 day ago

  Offering my perspective to a theological question in a new environment is always a scary thing for me. Our personal...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By Duchess - 1 day ago

  DH has always been the one who is particularly sensitive about being overheard, so has never made much noise. I...

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  RE: QOTD - Celebrity Crushes By BroadSword - 1 day ago

  Like others have said, I don't have crushes on celebrities now.  But if I were to have a crush now...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By 69greyshades - 1 day ago

  Not so verbal over here. Just her moans... specially near to the orgasm, and when she is on the crest...

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  RE: Trouble with Erections By Scott+Zelda - 1 day ago

  I am not an MD and certainly not a specialist in this area. However, I think your answers lie here:...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By Brynna - 1 day ago

  We both are mostly quiet. Years of children and crowded living quarters must have trained it out of us. But...

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  RE: Bushy pubic hair? By David - 1 day ago

  @69Greyshades, pubic hair really doesn't get that messy during sex, and it's not difficult to clean in the shower if...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By SongOfAngels - 1 day ago

  During foreplay i'm virtually silent although the sensations would make me want to be vocal but being a woman i...

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  RE: Post sex cleaning By 69greyshades - 1 day ago

  We have some habits around this. After I perform OS on her, my mouth/lips won't go on her face, until...

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  RE: Is there a forum etiquette page? By Dale - 1 day ago

  Just wanted to echo what Scott said:  DO NOT hesitate to PM me if you see something that may be...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By luvabug99 - 1 day ago

  While the proximity of our kids’ bedrooms make us a little cautious in this regard, DW definitely is the louder...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By TinyTim - 1 day ago

  First was 5th grade sit down with boys in one room and girls in the other and we watch the...

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  RE: Is there a forum etiquette page? By Slipthegrasp - 1 day ago

  I have never read the FAQs, there are some things I cannot figure out.  I've probably gotten on some nerves...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By intrepides96 - 1 day ago

  DW is typically more vocal. She get's louder with moans right before and during orgasm and I love every bit...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By Slipthegrasp - 1 day ago

  Kids and kids have trained us to be quiet.  Although that is in the past, some things are hard to...

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  RE: Anyone keeping records / stats of sex activity? By Happily married - 1 day ago

  I've not ever thought about keeping stats on our sexual activity. For me it would take away from the freedom...

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  RE: Is there a forum etiquette page? By SeekingChange - 1 day ago

  Moving this from a comment to an answer.... it's in reply to @Scott bringing up "downvotes".... Downvotes aren’t always about...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By Oldbear - 1 day ago

  Her and her. Both of us are verbal (me) and vocal (her) pre and during. She, however, is very vocal...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By Tracker - 1 day ago

  neitherno ideaprobablyboth quite vocal pre fight and during fighting though and dog joins right in there

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  RE: Is there a forum etiquette page? By Scott+Zelda - 1 day ago

  Both @SC and @NWNL did a good job covering things. Overall, we are largely self policing and the group works...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By Scott+Zelda - 1 day ago

  I (the DH) am almost always the louder one in both the pre-orgasm and orgasm phases. Zelda is usually quite...

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  RE: Any recommendations on non-piercing jewelry for men or women? By 69greyshades - 1 day ago

  Sometimes I wear a metal ring around my glans. But never put metal rings beyond the line around the glans,...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By Happily married - 1 day ago

  Guilty. I am the more vocal in both pre and orgasmic phase. That said, yes, my quieter wife was more...

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  RE: Sleeves By 69greyshades - 1 day ago

  Once I tried a sleeve, it didn't work as expected. I think the sleeve was too small, or my shaft...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By one_woman_man - 1 day ago

  Pre-orgasm we are about equal. During orgasm, DW is definitely louder than I am! It's not that I can't be...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By SeekingChange - 1 day ago

  Him and him... but, for how vocal my husband is in everyday life, he really is not very vocal during...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By Twue_Wuv - 2 days ago

  My wife is probably louder leading up to it, and I'm probably louder when it actually happens.

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By newwifenewlife - 2 days ago

  I'd say me. It's just natural and better than that, my DW enjoys hearing my responses and it turns her...

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  RE: 05/27/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day By LBD - 2 days ago

  A few funny stories come to mind with this one. But to answer first - I am typically the more...

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  RE: Hot Chili Pepper Hand Job? By 69greyshades - 2 days ago

  Also had experienced this with hot peppers, mustard, pepper powder, and other hot things you cannot image. It is good...

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  RE: Is there a forum etiquette page? By newwifenewlife - 2 days ago

  Welcome aboard. A forum like this is designed to encourage dialogue so asking a question in a starter post is...

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  RE: Anyone keeping records / stats of sex activity? By LBD - 2 days ago

  There is an app for that - imagine that 🙂  I used it for a while, as mentioned above, when...

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  RE: Is there a forum etiquette page? By SeekingChange - 2 days ago

  The closest you can come is to go click on the topic "Guidelines, How Tos, and FAQ", and you will...

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  RE: Bushy pubic hair? By sd595 - 2 days ago

  It looks like there is a preference for everyone for sure.  I think the natural look is beautiful though a...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Happily married - 2 days ago

  Let me add to my earlier post about my naivete by saying not only was I not told about sex...

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  RE: Please pray and help hold me accountable By Oldbear - 2 days ago

  SLS, you are to be commended for your honesty, transparency, and contriteness. Sometimes folks on TMB amaze me with their...

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  RE: Bushy pubic hair? By 69greyshades - 2 days ago

  Don't like so much the idea of a "cushion during thrusting". The cushion will get a bit messy with all...

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  RE: Please pray and help hold me accountable By C. Joseph - 2 days ago

  As I said above, this trust in the lord is all good but if you are into porn and telling...

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  RE: Still new at this. By Scott+Zelda - 2 days ago

  Maybe it still feels new because it is new. Five years--I don't know your age, but you may be expecting to have...

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  RE: Please pray and help hold me accountable By Slipthegrasp - 2 days ago

  I am praying for you.  I have been there in some of your situations but then have been influenced by...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Scott+Zelda - 2 days ago

  I probably got bits and pieces here and there, but it was 5th-grade sex ed that taught me the big...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By SongOfAngels - 2 days ago

  I'm not even going to tell you how i learned.  Thankfully God will erase it from my psyche when i...

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  RE: Trouble with Erections By hoosier52 - 2 days ago

  Injections for B12 or low testosterone? I don't know of any connection between the two.  If it is testosterone injections,...

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  RE: Anyone keeping records / stats of sex activity? By Eleven0clock - 2 days ago

  So I actually have an “Extreme Dating Rulebook” that I made for fun with the wife that we loosely follow....

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Eleven0clock - 2 days ago

  I’m honestly not sure. I had been masturbating with a pillow to dry orgasms without understanding what it was since...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Hungry - 2 days ago

  I think my first big lesson came from a couple of pornographic magazines my friend found in a field behind...

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  RE: Bushy pubic hair? By SamanthaRose - 2 days ago

  One of the benefits of a bush is that it provides a "cushion" during thrusting?   How thick of a bush...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By velocity - 2 days ago

  My parents handed me some Dobson paperback book and said read it. Yes, I got the obligatory sex ed in...

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  RE: Please pray and help hold me accountable By SLS - 2 days ago

  Thank you all for your responses, prayers, and encouragement. Today was a far better day for me and I am...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Purple10 - 2 days ago

  I grew up in a Christian home. Around 11/12 I went to a church group and my parents also talked...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Purple10 - 2 days ago

  I grew up in a Christian home. Around 11/12 I went to a church group and my parents also talked...

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  RE: Trouble with Erections By LBD - 2 days ago

  I am certainly no MD, so what is your urologist saying?

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  RE: Please pray and help hold me accountable By LBD - 2 days ago

  I feel you brother. BTDT more than once. All of those are real feelings and natural reactions to what sure...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By LBD - 2 days ago

  I too will steal the term "expected" instead of using planned. There are "understood" times and places that have evolved...

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  RE: Bushy pubic hair? By 69greyshades - 2 days ago

  No hair in our food please 🙂

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By 69greyshades - 2 days ago

  Just by exploring my own body. The earliest memories of my life is on exploring my own body, maybe I...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Tantalum - 2 days ago

  How did I learn about sex? I picked up bits of information as I grew up but a few events...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By intrepides96 - 2 days ago

  My parents gave me a book by Christian authors when I was about 10 years old. They told me to...

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  RE: Still new at this. By Oldbear - 2 days ago

  Keep reading here on TMB. You’ll learn that you are in good company, and you’ll pick-up some good ideas!

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Oldbear - 2 days ago

  My eureka moment came in the 6th grade. Although my mother explained the physiology of sex in well-thought bits and...

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  RE: Female HRT experience? By hoosier52 - 2 days ago

  My wife and I are both on HRT with Defy medical.  My wife started after I almost begged her to...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By Oldbear - 2 days ago

  In our younger years, we were spontaneous with more frequency. For a number of years in our 50s and early...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Duchess - 2 days ago

  I also don't remember a time when I did not know about sex. I was given the clinical explanation well...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By Tantalum - 2 days ago

  Almost 100% spontaneous. Somehow "planned" does not work for us. My wife gets turned on by "being seduced" and planning...

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  RE: QOTD - Celebrity Crushes By Tantalum - 2 days ago

  Crushes - no. But of course there are some actresses that I find attractive. It would be strange if I...

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  RE: Female HRT experience? By SeekingChange - 2 days ago

  I haven't answered because I know there are people on here who have more direct experience with this than I....

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Brynna - 2 days ago

  I knew there was something secretive from maybe grade 6 on. I tried to learn from encyclopedias and anything I...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By SeekingChange - 2 days ago

  I can't recall how I first learned, what I know is my parents didn't talk to me about it and...

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  RE: Date Idea: Masquerade or Mystery Themed By newwifenewlife - 2 days ago

  A variation to 11oclock is to make clues/riddles to various places that your spouse has to figure out to visit....

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  RE: Trouble with Erections By newwifenewlife - 2 days ago

  I'm sad to hear that. May God meet you and your wife in your time of need.

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  RE: Still new at this. By newwifenewlife - 2 days ago

  It's fun. Have fun. You're on a journey together and that's awesome. Keep talking. Keep trying. Have sexploration times where...

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  RE: Please pray and help hold me accountable By workerbee - 2 days ago

  I'm at work and unable to read replies at this time, but I promise you that I will be praying...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Slipthegrasp - 2 days ago

  Well, there was the 6th grade sex education classes with their expatiation and illustrations of how cattle get it done....

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By LuckyInLove - 3 days ago

  5th grade health class and Christian books that my mom gave me around that time. In junior high, my church...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By one_woman_man - 3 days ago

  I don't remember exactly when and how I learned about it. Visits to the farm were a major source of...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By newwifenewlife - 3 days ago

  The awareness of body part differences was maybe 4-5th grade. It was probably a couple years later when I learned...

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  RE: Please pray and help hold me accountable By sd595 - 3 days ago

  Brother, first take a deep breath.  Then pray.  Then lay at His feet.  Let Him in to heal you, all...

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  RE: Trouble with Erections By sd595 - 3 days ago

  Praying for you this morning SLS - praying that He will lift you, strengthen you, and heal you brother.

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  RE: Date Idea: Masquerade or Mystery Themed By Dapper Dan - 3 days ago

  Hey 11:00, I want to hear more about this in detail. Sounds like the type of things I'd like to...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By LBD - 3 days ago

  It’s a little hazy now, but it was a combination of becoming aware of hearing then seeing my parents in...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By 4allthestars - 3 days ago

  I cant remember a time not knowing about sex. My mom made sure we were more informed and prepared than...

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Happily married - 3 days ago

  My parents never talked about it at all with me. I learned about sex from 6th grade sex ed class....

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  RE: Hi everyone By Happily married - 3 days ago

  I think it was the end of the Beverly Hill Billies where they would end the show with "ya'll come...

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  RE: Please pray and help hold me accountable By SeekingChange - 3 days ago

  Oh SLS, my heart has compassion for you. Though the circumstances are different, those emotions you describe I have BTDT....

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  RE: 5/26/2020 - Today's Question Of The Day By Olorin - 3 days ago

  My dad had the conversation with me when I was in 5th grade. Unbeknownst to me, my grade school had...

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  RE: Still new at this. By Liverr - 3 days ago

  Learning together is all the fun.   Talk about it.  It's ok to make suggestions to each other. You have...

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  RE: Am I expecting too much? By Hungry - 3 days ago

  A bit of an update, I had a good talk with DW to express my inner conflict. I have worked...

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  RE: Trouble with Erections By SeekingChange - 3 days ago

  Praying for you SLS.   I would have your testosterone checked again.

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  RE: Hi everyone By Duchess - 3 days ago

  Welcome! Making a hobby of pursuing your wife romantically--that's genius!!

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  RE: How to express personal grooming preferences? By Duchess - 3 days ago

  "the smell is similar to the toilet if it hasn’t been flushed all night" Presumably you mean when folks avoid...

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  RE: Date Idea: Masquerade or Mystery Themed By Duchess - 3 days ago

  @ ElevenOclock:  I applaud the massive amount of effort and thought you put into dating your wife! I'm sure she...

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  RE: Date Idea: Masquerade or Mystery Themed By Eleven0clock - 3 days ago

  Dude! idk if you’ve used them yet but... I did something epic with mine. So I kinda have a Tim...

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  RE: Am I expecting too much? By sd595 - 3 days ago

  To answer your question - yes, I think you might be. Some thoughts Hungry that I hope bless you. The...

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  RE: Still new at this. By SeekingChange - 3 days ago

  You know... I didn't join TMB until we were 18+ years into our marriage, and I was learning ALL kinds...

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  RE: QOTD - Celebrity Crushes By LuckyInLove - 3 days ago

  I haven't had a celebrity 'crush' since I was a teen, but if you're talking just a celebrity you think...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By LuckyInLove - 3 days ago

  50/50. Always both weekend mornings and then spontaneous during the week. The suddenness excites me most.

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  RE: Why do you have sex? By Purple10 - 3 days ago

  Sex is the deepest connection between husband and wife. The very fact my husband and I have only seen each...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By Purple10 - 3 days ago

  It's 50/50 for us

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  RE: Is this a common problem? By MrMarried - 3 days ago

  Same issue here.  Our solution is that my wife has developed some skill at hand jobs.

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  RE: QOTD - Celebrity Crushes By MrMarried - 3 days ago

  He that looks at a woman in order to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his...

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  RE: Would this bother you? By Sygoonda - 3 days ago

  It would bother Me. I try to let DW know if I am running late Unfortunately, She is not as...

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  RE: Hi everyone By Slipthegrasp - 3 days ago

  Welcome back, 11oc!  I hope you find the challenge that goes along with the encouragement that is here.

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  RE: QOTD - Celebrity Crushes By Dapper Dan - 3 days ago

  Scarlett Johansson. I can't help it. Didn't choose it. One thing that helps fidelity is to look at their personal...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By Eleven0clock - 3 days ago

  Both. Spontaneous hotness is great. We also have “Super Sex Sunday” planned at least once or twice a month which...

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  RE: QOTD - Celebrity Crushes By Duchess - 3 days ago

  I used to never ever notice actors as anything more than "Oh, he's probably considered great-looking. I can see it."...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By Wheat48 - 3 days ago

  Almost all spontaneous right now. It really varies by season of life though. And actually before stay at home, they...

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  RE: Would you pay to increase sexual frequency? By jarcrun - 3 days ago

  I use this product.  I am VERY happy with it.  There can be nausea, but honestly, it passes quickly.  Any...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By newwifenewlife - 3 days ago

  I’d really need a definition about what those mean cause I don’t feel like we schedule sex, except to sometimes...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By Brynna - 3 days ago

  Ours is mostly scheduled right now. DH likes more spontaneous, but than it tends not to happen, as life, work,...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By velocity - 3 days ago

  If by "spontaneous" you mean we didn't agree to a time in advance, then 100% of our encounters are spontaneous....

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By one_woman_man - 3 days ago

  I would use the word SC used, expected. Or better yet,  anticipated!DW and I expect to come together every other...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By DesertDweller - 3 days ago

  We always knew that when I got beck from a business trip, we would be jumping each other, but past...

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  RE: QOTD - Celebrity Crushes By mcgruff - 3 days ago

  It seems to me too complicated and person-dependent to put celebrity crushes into some definitive okay or not-okay box. For...

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  RE: Moans when returning home from work By velocity - 3 days ago

  I've got two perspectives here. In the context of a healthy relationship where as the DH I know it's a...

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  RE: Myers-Briggs personality types and your marriage By mcgruff - 4 days ago

  I definitely get that MB seems like nonsense to a lot of people. I think for a lot of people,...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By SeekingChange - 4 days ago

  Most of our sexual encounters are expected. We both expect to sex to happen when we go to bed. Any...

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  RE: Am I expecting too much? By C. Joseph - 4 days ago

  In the past, internet posts were nonexistent. Women did what they did or not and no one knew of any...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By dc9 - 4 days ago

  Most of our sex encounters are planned. We have a fixed plan of sex every other day... We think it's...

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  RE: How many struggle with this? By C. Joseph - 4 days ago

  Yes. Kitchen remodel, yard remodel, garage shelf construction, lotsa garbage and cardboard. Special needs kids who make messes but cannot...

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  RE: QOTD - Celebrity Crushes By C. Joseph - 4 days ago

  I have numerous models and actresses that I think are incredibly cast. For those who don't know what that means;...

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  RE: How common is AS? By C. Joseph - 4 days ago

  No. Not interested. Doctors say that there are no pleasure nerves for her in that area so that just makes...

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  RE: QOTD-5/25/2020- Spontaneous vs. Planned Encounters? By Olorin - 4 days ago

  Between 33 and 50% of our sexual encounters are planned. Typically, we have sex every Saturday morning, and then maybe...