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  • I am struggling for constructive things to say here. I never in my wildest thoughts, even in my teens when 50 seemed really  old, dreamed that my wife and I would be “done with sex” by 50 much less 40. Your husband’s attitudes toward sex pretty much mirror mine, at least at face value. I feel bad for you for not enjoying sex, for him for not having a willing and enthusiastic partner, and for your marriage because when the sexual aspect suffers, other aspects suffer as well. I will be praying for you and your husband.

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  • Queen bed Asked on December 4, 2020 in Question of the Day.

    Oh and I guess I have one that fits the one liner/dad joke category: I asked DW if she wanted to play “fire station”. She asked what that was and I said that I would be the fire station,  she could play the firefighter and slide down my pole……… it’s bad, I know. LOL.

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  • Queen bed Asked on December 4, 2020 in Question of the Day.

    Best one ever was when we were on a family vacation visiting distant relatives who have a ranch in another state.  We put the kids to bed and DW asked the relatives if it was OK if we borrowed their 4-wheeler so she could show me the sunset from a remote part of the ranch (she had been there before, I hadn’t).  I was driving with her sitting behind me, with arms around my torso.  As we got closer to the destination, her hands moved downward……..and we ended up making love on a 4 wheeler while watching a beautiful sunset. One of the hottest moments of our marriage and totally instigated by DW!

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  • Queen bed Asked on December 4, 2020 in MARRIED SEX.

      Wow, I feel like of much of this post is DW and I to a T.  She got more confident in doing what she needed to “O” at about year 10 of our marriage, at roughly your age. I think it was a combination of maturing a bit and also a new group of friends who were more sex-positive than some of her friends before.

      As a DH who was frustrated with his wife’s inability to open up and be freed sexually, one thing I think that might motivate you would be to think of pushing through the boundaries you’ve set for yourself not only for your benefit, but to bless your husband and your married relationship sexually. I know, easier said than done.

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    • Queen bed Asked on December 3, 2020 in Question of the Day.

        I think the best gift was when I was working a trade show and was near a booth where the vendor custom made an item that was related to DW’s late grandfather’s business. I contacted her dad, (my FIL)  who gave me an approximation of the logo for that business. I had it made at the show and took it home and gave it to her for Valentine’s day. She was very touched and appreciative!

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      • Queen bed Asked on November 23, 2020 in Question of the Day.

          We have a fairly late model family vehicle that’s “hers” and an antique pickup that is my daily driver. We occasionally trade if the other has a need for the other vehicle for any reason. Since we both are behind the wheel a lot for work, we tend to share driving duties 50/50 or so.

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        • Queen bed Asked on November 23, 2020 in Question of the Day.

          We only really “tried” to conceive for our first, but I remember the excitement as well as the frequency being pretty elevated at the time. Somewhere, one of us heard that doggy was good for conception, so we tried that position for the first time as well.  The sex during that 6 month period was probably the hottest we had up to that point, and for quite a few years afterward, but her drive a few years later blew the doors off that!

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        • Queen bed Asked on November 18, 2020 in Question of the Day.

            Since we normally use multiple positions per session, it would be tough to know which position our kids were conceived in. Our first was conceived after 6 months of trying, and our second was sort of an accident……we had discussed having another and neither of us was quite sure yet. A few things transpired one night to make us not use a condom, and 9 months later we had a daughter! God’s timing on both our kids was perfect.

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          • I thought we were the only ones breaking the gender stereotypes! DW was an athelete in HS and is still a sports nut. I’ve never had any interest and the talents to match. Often when we are settled in for the evening, she will turn on a ball game and I will say “aw, can’t we watch something else?”

            In the bedroom, I generally like more foreplay than she does, although she has come around to realizing that her orgasms are stronger and more reliable when we’ve “warmed up” rather than just jumping into PIV.

            As far as showing our emotions, we both have our moments of being stoic vs. letting it show.

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          • Queen bed Asked on November 11, 2020 in Question of the Day.

              My answer would have been the same…….missionary for both. We do quite a few positions regularly, but missionary is how we nearly always start and often finish.

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