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California King
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  • California King Asked on January 7, 2021 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

      A black lace choker is super hot. That happens when the 80s/90s are your formative years. 🙂

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    • California King Asked on December 21, 2020 in Question of the Day.

      Would have to be lube or no PIV would happen for us.

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    • We’ve done this for a few years. Funds most of our sex toy purchases. We count anything sexual (HJ, mutual MB, oral, PIV) and general average around $115-130. Would mind more, but health and work get in the way. Still, not bad after 17 years. 🙂

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    • California King Asked on December 13, 2020 in None of The Above.

        1) Absolutely not. Plenty of people we could make a good marriage with if we put in the effort. Some would be better than others.

        2) I think God can guide us about anything, including marriage.

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      • California King Asked on November 24, 2020 in Question of the Day.

          We share, though she prefers one to the other.

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        • California King Asked on November 21, 2020 in Marriage Books, Resources, Sites .

            I’m with Oldbear in my assessment.

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          • California King Asked on November 21, 2020 in Question of the Day.

              Planned event that finished in missionary for sure, pillow under her hips. I had a cold and wouldn’t have wanted sex if we hadn’t been trying. Large layoffs at work earlier that day, too. Not a good combo for wanting sex even for a guy lol.

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            • California King Asked on November 20, 2020 in Question of the Day.

                We are doing our own little Thanksgiving just in our house, no family. Most of them don’t follow reasonable precautions. Even God had the Israelites avoid contagious diseases with precautions including isolation and avoidance. How terrible to follow His example for the good of our fellow humans. It won’t last forever. I’d rather do a virtual Thanksgiving than be the reason a family member has a ventilator Christmas.

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              • California King Asked on November 17, 2020 in None of The Above.

                  There is no magic. Unless you have a rare medical condition it is calories in and calories out. Track what you eat. Find your maintenance calorie point and then cut about 20-25% from that. High protein helps most – after that carbs or fats don’t matter as long as protein if high and total calories are under what you burn. Carbs aren’t evil. Too many highly processed carbs can be bad but again only if in excess. Read some articles on fat loss at Legion Athletics blog. Even if you don’t start lifting weights like he proscribes, the diet and nutrition advice is all science based, peer reviewed research. I lost 25 lbs doing it, eating lots of carbs, as have many others. You can tweak it however you want as long as you keep protein higher (prevents muscle loss, which is always bad). Diet is 90% of it. Can’t out exercise a bad diet. Even rigorous exercises only burn 100-200 calories for most people, which is easily wiped out with one small diet choice. Read the articles, start tracking, give it a few weeks , and you’ll see results.

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                • California King Asked on November 11, 2020 in Question of the Day.

                    First position was missionary because that seemed to be the thing to do for our first time.

                    Most recent was a quickie because her back hurt so missionary, which I like for finishing quickly when needed or after a longer session in other positions, but it isn’t out favorite or most used.

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