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  • Queen bed Asked on August 13, 2019 in Question of the Day.

      It was with my wife on our wedding day. I remember thinking at the time that it was a very different sensation to kiss someone on the lips than merely kissing them on the cheek, or the hand. It’s a pleasant memory for me, that’s for sure!

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    • I’d like to point out that I did take the advice I was given to heart — I have not engaged in that fantasizing and recording myself since. But I still find the idea of my wife watching videos (or real life) of me mb-ing or stripping a real turn on. Fortunately I haven’t had as much problems with lust or thinking of anyone seeing me but my wife.
      Just wanted to clarify the details.

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    • Queen bed Asked on August 12, 2019 in Activities & Items .

        As a man — to answer your question, no, I have not done any sexts or erotic messages for my wife. And I don’t think I’d like to send anything erotic of myself online for fear someone else would see it. Admittedly, I once made an erotic video for her and put it on her computer (I told her it was there), but she told me she didn’t feel comfortable with that and never watched it. So I’ve never done any erotic media of any kind for her since then.

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      • Queen bed Asked on August 12, 2019 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

          No, I can’t think of anything major. But we are different in many ways: personality, hobbies, daily routines and ways of doing different tasks … all of those differences can be a minor irritation in our relationship if we let it, but we are getting better at getting along in those areas and respecting each other’s opinions, while acknowledging we don’t agree on everything.

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        • No, I haven’t. I don’t think it would be my wife’s sort of thing. But I have wrote her many non-sexual romantic poems.

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        • Queen bed Asked on August 12, 2019 in Activities & Items .

            It was my first time being intimate with anybody, and it was our wedding night. It was very awkward and did not go the way I had often fantasized about my wedding night growing up. I felt very disappointed and sad afterwards. HOWEVER, I also felt a stronger love and closeness with my wife, and I knew that she truly loved me, too, and that we had consummated our marriage and we would never be apart again. THAT was the important thing, and that feeling of love and commitment for each other, NOT the frustrations or disappointments, is the memory that I have chosen to keep in my heart and mind from my first time being intimate with her 🙂

            — Eye Above The Storm

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          • Queen bed Asked on August 12, 2019 in Question of the Day.

              • Many times I have gone ahead anyway when I am tired, although I respect my wife whenever she says she is too tired for sex.

              • Missionary position.

              • We usually don’t have sex when she is very tired, so I am not sure I can really answer that. When we’ve had sex when I am very tired it is actually usually much more enjoyable than normal (we have talked about this and believe it is because I am not as self-conscious about my body and am able to let go of all my inhibitions because I am simply to exhausted to think very much).

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            • Queen bed Asked on July 14, 2019 in Theology of Sex .

                For starters, I think it’s a sacrificial love, not a selfish “love”. I hope to live that out, by the Holy Spirit…

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              • I have used lamb skin, they are more comfortable (read: less annoying) but I frankly hate all condoms to varying degrees…

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              • Queen bed Asked on July 11, 2019 in Intercourse (PIV) & Positions.

                  My first sex was on our wedding night only a few years ago. Some aspects were really enjoyable because she is very sweet and she is a beautiful woman. Other aspects, I was tired, it was rushed, and I couldn’t keep an erect state. I was very sad and disappointed and it caused a bit of a rift early on in our marriage. I blame my previous porn use for faulty expectations of first sex. However, God is doing wonderful things in my life and marriage as I seek Him and pursue my wife with each new day. There is still some frustration at how my wedding night went since I had so much excitement about it growing up, even before I knew who I would marry. I also think my first sex came later than most people so my hormones weren’t as strong and it was a bit of a let down in that sense as well. An approximately 30 year old man who works hard and has lots of adult life stresses and some chronic health issues simply does not have the sexual potency and vigor of a teenager! But at least those days were passed in virginity and I was able to give that to my wife.

                  Still thankful,
                  Eye Above The Storm

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