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Twin bed
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  • Twin bed Asked on April 23, 2019 in Sexually Refused .
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    LostaGoodThing
    Mark, I think your DW is fighting some kind of mental illness.  She needs help, badly.  I’m surprised that none of the local Christian counselors aren’t taking clients?  I think if they knew there was physical abuse and children involved, someone would make some time for you.  I know several of the counselors in my area (personally, through church, not just professionally) and most of them keep “slack” in their schedules to make sure they don’t fill up.  You may want to connect with some of the counselors and plead your case.  Your marriage (and DW’s health) is worth the effort.
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    I have been seeking help for years, I’ve read books, forums and had conversations with people whom I trust. I wish I could get her to put in half the effort.

    I suppose this is telling. 

     

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  • Twin bed Asked on April 23, 2019 in Sexually Refused .

    I’m failing to see the point of the new format of these forums. I can’t directly comment on posts because I don’t have enough points, so I have to add an answer.

    Due to the voting system, my answers get pushed to the bottom and are pushed out of order.

    When the responses are out of order it makes it hard to follow a thread.

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  • Twin bed Asked on April 22, 2019 in Sexually Refused .

    We were talking after they had went to bed.

    During the event, DW was yelling at me (when she hit me) she continued to yell at me when she stormed off through the house slamming doors.

    The oldest heard her outburst.

    I’m worried about how this maybe effecting them.

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  • Twin bed Asked on April 22, 2019 in Sexually Refused .

    I don’t have enough points to comment so here is a reply..

     

    @Elevation

    Please forgive me for asking, but what are the thoughts behind your question? I don’t want to read in to it.

    Did she initiate the hit?

    We were sitting on the couch having a difficult conversation about the lack of intimacy in our marriage when she hit me out of frustration with the conversation, so yes she Initiated the hit.

    I’ll be reading the links, thanks.

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  • Twin bed Asked on April 22, 2019 in Activities & Items .

      Repeated past refusal and no intimate connection.

       

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