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  • Double bed Asked on January 17, 2020 in Activities & Items .

      We don’t have sex toys now, but when we did, we kept them in a LOCKED toolbox stashed away in the closet.

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    • Double bed Asked on January 14, 2020 in Chit Chat, Jokes, and More .

        No dreams about missing parts last night! “Crisis” is over 🤣🤣

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      • Double bed Asked on December 12, 2019 in Question of the Day.

          Spending time together. And when DW gets new clothes.

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        • Double bed Asked on December 11, 2019 in Question of the Day.

            Pray first , then think about what to say in the most constructive and non-hurtful way, and then consider the timing. A good time is when you are not having conflict. A bad time is when you’re arguing. The  worst time is when you are having sex.

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          • Double bed Asked on December 4, 2019 in Introduce Yourself.

              Welcome back! Is bjj in your handle is for Brazilian Jiujitsu?

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            • Double bed Asked on December 3, 2019 in Introduce Yourself.

                Hi everyone. Thanks for the warm welcome 😊. I very much appreciate it.

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              • Double bed Asked on December 2, 2019 in Masturbation (Married - solo or together).

                  “Now, I know physiologically, this is not true.  She’s taken herself to O for me before.  I know she can.  She also gets off when I manually stimulate her.   I realize that it may not be as enjoyable as my touch since there is not that connection there, but I ” she is lying to me.  I have my thoughts and opinions as to why, but feel there is dishonesty here.”

                  Physiologically, she may be able to O from masturbation, but that doesn’t mean she’s lying to you.  I can’t speak for your wife, but my wife very much prefers the connection to intercourse than masturbating.

                  Just a note. I’ve been married for 28 years. I would advise you against assuming a negative reason (such as lying) when she does or says something contrary to what you want. If she is lying about something like that, you can’t prove it one way or another, anyway, so it is not beneficial to accuse her of it. Instead, pray for her and leave the rest up to the Holy Spirit. Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up for unwarranted bitterness and anger later on.

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                • Double bed Asked on December 2, 2019 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

                    I don’t question my call currently, but I have wondered if because of poor decisions in my youth I have missed my call. However, though, I believe in the goodness and sovereignty of God. He knew what I’d end up doing before I made any wrong decisions.

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                  • Double bed Asked on November 13, 2019 in Question of the Day.

                      We like both. I find that if I feel my erection going down, doing a grinding motion will provide some extra stimulation and help keep it up.

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                    • Double bed Asked on November 9, 2019 in Masturbation (Married - solo or together).

                        When we do masturbate, it’s usually at night when we go to bed, especially if we’re too tired to ML but need some release. Once in a while I’ll wake up to DW masturbating. I just give her a teasing pat, then roll over and let her enjoy herself. I’m sure she’s done the same to me.

                        The other day, I woke up to her MBing. It turned me on, so I started too, but we then ended up having sex.

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