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  • Double bed Asked 1 day ago in Question of the Day.

      That ones easy for me! I’ll take a blindfold every time! Being such a visual person when I am blindfolded (or I close my eyes) my brain focuses on the sensations (instead of the visual input) and so it feels way better!

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    • Double bed Asked 1 day ago in Chit Chat, Jokes, and More .

        My fiancé was married to my best friend and I met him through her a long time ago. He became my husbands best friend and after his wife died, we helped him with the challenges of raising his kids as a single dad. When my husband died he chose to help me through my grief journey. We each fell in love with the other but did not know the others feelings until a reveal happened quite by accident. We immediately got engaged, since we had known each other for over 30 years and we are getting married 3 months later.
        I wouldn’t change anything about our pre-marriage time. God in his infinite wisdom has us living in different states which seems like a bummer but which has turned out to be a huge blessing to keep us pure and also provide lots of opportunities to talk on the phone about our relationship in a way that fosters openness that might be too intimate in person. I have been amazed at Gods perfect provision!

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      • Double bed Asked 5 days ago in Oral Sex.

          My first husband was shorter than me so there was a lot of neck strain and generally not as much pleasure as when we did each other one at a time. But we did use it for short bursts. My second husband is a bit taller so it’s promising but we aren’t married yet! 😉

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        • Double bed Asked 5 days ago in Activities & Items .

            I have three different Lelo products and they are worth every penny. By far my favorite toys but I have not tried the two you mentioned. Sorry.

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          • Double bed Asked on September 11, 2019 in Prayer Needs/Praises (Any and all prayer request and praises.).

              That is SO wonderful! Congratulations! May God continue to bless the two of you as you seek to give Him glory in all areas of your lives!

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            • Double bed Asked on September 11, 2019 in Question of the Day.

                I was at home with all our little ones ages 2-12. Hubby called to tell me about the first plane hitting the tower. He thought it was odd since the weather was clear and told me to watch the news. We discussed possibilities and he thought something was wrong right from the start. I watched it unfold with my kids…glued to the TV. I couldn’t turn away. I was just trying to understand why.

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              • Double bed Asked on September 10, 2019 in None of The Above.

                  I have had MUCH better experiences with midwives than OB/GYNs, but that is just personal experience.

                   

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                • Double bed Asked on September 10, 2019 in Question of the Day.

                    Currently reading The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Gottman and it is AMAZING! Although I was married 33 years the first time I am learning a lot in preparation for my second marriage.

                    Love and Respect by Eggerichs totally changed my first marriage!

                    5 Love Languages by Chapman – get the book from the library and learn your spouses language!

                    5 Languages of Apology by Chapman – WOW this was powerful in my first marriage! I spent 25 years assuming he had a hard time forgiving and it turned out I wasn’t apologizing properly. Once I did he melted! Amazing! So much is spoken about regarding love languages but few mention this one, yet arguments can be toxic in a relationship. You can also get this from the library and read it once. No need to own it.

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                  • I was living a similar life as your wife about 15 years ago. My husband and I believed that divorce was not an option so either we would live with our spouse for the rest of our lives and be miserable OR we would live with our spouse for the rest of our lives and make it the best we possibly could. Thankfully, when I was being an awful wife, my husband chose to love me the way God loves me…unconditionally, with mercy and grace, totally self-sacrificing. He learned that my love language is acts of service and so he served me relentlessly, even though I was ungrateful and barely noticed. And he even had a sweet attitude about it. It slowly melted my busy, distracted, selfish heart. I turned towards him and our marriage slowly changed. We talked about sex and worked to create a lifestyle of sex where we teased and talked about it all the time. That way I was ready by bedtime. And thanks to TMB we had a rockin’ awesome MB for the last 10 years of our marriage before he passed away.

                    I know it is cliche but reread 1 Corinthians 13 again, slowly. God is love. If you are his disciple then you must love as he loves. It is very hard but it will change you to be more like your Heavenly Father…And maybe it will also change your wife. I will pray that it does, of course, but even if it doesn’t change her, God’s will will be done in your life. And that’s a good thing!
                    Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

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                  • Double bed Asked on September 4, 2019 in Activities & Items .

                      I am about to be married for the second time and I don’t know what role toys will play in this new relationship, but in my first marriage, my husband introduced C-rings and the. A buzzy little bullet vibe. I did not enjoy the sensations it made so he went looking for nicer, deeper vibrations for me, which he found. He bought lots of fun stuff for us to try over the years and I always looked forward to “Toy Tuesdays.”

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