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  • My heart breaks for you and your situation. Thanks for sharing.

    I pray that you will be strong in the Lord and the power of His might. And that by his power you can remain firm in your convictions. And keep from sinning. May God direct your next steps.

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  • Under the stars Asked 21 hours ago in Introduce Yourself.

      Welcome! It is good to have you join us.

      Please commit yourself to both being helped and helping the rest of us to enjoy all that God has for the marriage bed for married couples!

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    • Under the stars Asked 21 hours ago in Question of the Day.

        It would have to be our first time having sex, the night of our wedding day. (And every time on our honeymoon.) Like, Wow! This is totally amazing!

        A close second would be undressing her and seeing her naked our first night together!

        Another would be the first time DW did oral to completion!

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      • So sorry to hear of this! Praying for you, for grace and for healing!

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      • Under the stars Asked 4 days ago in Intercourse (PIV) & Positions.

          Yes, we have had PIV without much thrusting. For various reasons, including being quiet. But, we usually do not refrain from an O for me – as I can O more quietly than DW can.

          As far as suck jobs and hand jobs go, we have a “silent mode” 😉 for those, so we are freer to do those.

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        • Under the stars Asked 5 days ago in Chit Chat, Jokes, and More .

            Ok, I give it a whirl!

            1. A romantic poem
            2. A long walk with a free-wheeling conversation about couple hood
            3. A sweet letter with a list of affirmations of him
            4. Some shoulder-to-shoulder event/activity of his liking
            5. Gift card to his favorite store
            6. Something electronic (or a vibe!)
            7. A tool (or another vibe 😉 )
            8. Erotic massage
            9. Striptease
            10. OS (A suck with a swallow)
            11. An extended session of sex
            12. All of the above 😀
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          • Under the stars Asked 5 days ago in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

              Interesting. Thanks for sharing. Now, I can imagine some people will tell you, “Just get over it already!” And they might feel justified in doing so.

              Yet, I sympathise with you. I understand why you would feel as you do. I don’t think it is strange or paranoid of you to feel that way. In addition, it was gracious of you to take her to see the candidate. Some people, who are very controlling, wouldn’t have even considered doing something like that.

              It seems to me that you two need to have a talk about it some time. It would make sense that she needs to tone things down a bit so that you feel more comfortable, loved, and valued. And you should seek to continue to believe the best of her and try not to focus on this as much as you are tempted to.

               

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            • Under the stars Asked 5 days ago in Question of the Day.

                When she is talking to me and standing, she often places her hands on her hips – even though she isn’t scolding me! It seems it just feels good for her back or something!

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              • Under the stars Asked 6 days ago in Introduce Yourself.

                  Welcome! Good to have you with us. Looking forward to your contributions!

                   

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                • Under the stars Asked 6 days ago in Question of the Day.

                    I don’t want to come across as self-righteous. But, I’m not aware of a struggle with jealousy. Other things, yes! I recognize that all we have comes from God. So, I’m blessed and so are others. I don’t want to argue with what God does or decides. I’m quite settled with how things are.

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