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  • Twin bed Asked on February 11, 2020 in MARRIED SEX.

      With the suction cup dildo, I was thinking of fixing that to the end of our sleigh bed, she back herself up to that and I kneel in front of her for her to take me orally.

      Not sure if this is anything anyone has tried?

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    • Twin bed Asked on February 11, 2020 in Activities & Items .

        Thanks for the candor on this. I appreciate the frank discussion.

        I did wonder about size (5″?), so maybe a smaller one would be better?

        Does this do anything for the female though, or is it more annoying?

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      • Twin bed Asked on February 11, 2020 in MARRIED SEX.

          I have been curious about this scenario for some time now…

          Suction cup dildo secured to something and she use it to penetrate doggy style and then she take you orally.

          Any thoughts on this?

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        • In our marriage, we do bondage a bit like this…

          I might send a text message or two during the day alluding to bondage. By the time she gets home, she is more than ready for what I had in mind. After dinner I may play with her feet and have some wandering hands etc.

          At bed time, I will get out the toy box while she is in the shower. When she comes out, I will proceed to tie her up slowly with hand cuffs / ankle cuffs. I usually caress and stroke her while tying her up. This usually takes a few minutes. With bondage, I am into gags and sometimes blindfolds. I usually then slowly put a ballgag in her mouth kiss her. If I want her guessing what comes next, I will introduce the blindfold. Once she is comfortably tied up and gagged, I then use toys and slowly bring her up to the point of orgasm. I am never in a rush, because I am in a very happy place, just like she is. I guess it is kind of like edging. I seem to do quite well with this technique, because she comments afterwards and then again the following day. When we do bondage, I tend to make it all about her and because I am very turned on, I have no problem cumming at the end.

          I think some people are a bit reserved about gags, but we think that gags add to the whole experience. It brings some vulnerability and trust to the situation from what I have read and understand. My wife also tells me that she bites down on her gag when her orgasms are super strong. How good is that!

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        • Twin bed Asked on November 11, 2019 in Question of the Day.

            Yep… We tried bondage less than a year ago. Wife was dropping hints that she wanted to step things up a bit in the bedroom, but we never really talked specifics on what this would look like. I came across a Psychology Today article on bedroom bondage and how a surprising statistic of women are into it and wanted their spouse (I use the term spouse, because I hope the women surveyed were all married) to introduce it. A light bulb went on for me and I sent a copy of the article to my wife without any pressure on her. I just said “here, have a read of this”. She was initially a bit reserved, but to cut a long story short we do enjoy bondage in the bedroom. Nothing sick or perverted and I made 150% certain that she was ok with it. For a time I backed off on the bondage and she brought up how she enjoys it (hint – hint).

            I think bondage gets a bit of a bad wrap, because of certain movies and the evil / horrendous porn industry. My wife enjoys being tied up (and gagged and with a blindfold), because she is forced to relax and just enjoy. She doesn’t have to think or do anything (well she can’t if she is tied up and has a gag in her mouth). It’s crazy hot fun for us and she knows / trusts that I would never do anything to hurt or disrespect her.

            We are still working out the whole bondage thing. Not sure about role play yet, but will probably explore that some more.

            From this man’s point of view, tying up his wife, gagging her and putting on a blindfold is truly a sensual thing. Seeing her enjoy the bedroom bondage scene is just out of this world…

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          • I have tried out the silicon type cage and it’s ok, but… They are a bit too flexible and can be hard to put on (too fiddly).

            Does anyone have any experience with solid plastic types? I am a bit hesitant to try metal. Any thoughts on this?

            Thanks,

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          • Maybe… There is still a part of me that thinks some of what we do with sex now is a bit unusual and there is a possibility that she will judge or reject me. But when I type that, I am 200% certain that she is into all that we do, because we have discussed it, even though our discussion was a bit awkward and some of it via text.

             

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          • I’m keen to give it a try. I have no idea on how I would introduce it to my wife and I’m not sure what her reaction would be either. It would be my hope that she finds it amusing and a bit of fun.
            It would be interesting to get a female’s opinion on this…

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          • Does anyone else have any other ideas on pubic hair removal?

            Thanks

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          • Does anyone have any experience or comment on using something like Nair on the genitals?

            I was reading the label of a similar type product and it had warnings about not to use on the genitals.

            Would be nice to permanently remove hair, but I won’t go laser.

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