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  • Queen bed Asked on February 10, 2020 in Question of the Day.

      I do not feel embarrassed showing my nudity to my DW. I find it fan allowing her to see me nude. A number of times I sleep in the nude with the lights on just to give her the opportunity to explore while am asleep and she enjoys it.

      She too does not feel embarrassed seeing me around when she is nude. She loves to allow me see her completely nude.

      We are just obeying the Word of God that talks about our bodies belonging to our spouses.

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    • Queen bed Asked on January 9, 2020 in Theology of Sex .

        Now notice something else in 1 Corinthians 7:3–5. This is very important. In verse 4 Paul says that the man and the woman have rights over each other’s body. When the two become one flesh, their bodies are at each other’s disposal. Each has the right to lay claim to the other’s body for sexual gratification. But what we really need to see is what Paul commands in verses 3 and 5 in view of these mutual rights. He does not say, “Therefore stake your claim! Take your rights!” He says, “Husband, give her her rights! Wife, give him his rights!” (v. 3). And in verse 4, “Do not refuse one another.” In other words, he does not encourage the husband or wife who wants sexual gratification to seize it without concern for the other’s needs. Instead he urges both husband and wife to always be ready to give their body when the other wants it. I infer from this and from Jesus’s teaching in general that happy and fulfilling sexual relations in marriage depend on each partner aiming to give satisfaction to the other. If it is the joy of each to make the other happy, a hundred problems will be solved. Husbands, if it is your joy to bring her satisfaction, you will be sensitive to what she needs and wants. You will learn that the preparation for satisfactory sexual intercourse at 10 p.m. begins with tender words at 7 a.m. and continues through the day as kindness and respect. And when the time comes, you will not come on like a Sherman tank, but will know her pace and bring her skillfully along. Unless she gives you the signal, you will say, “Her climax, not mine, is the goal.” And you will find in the long run that it is more blessed to give than to receive. Wives, it is not always the case, but often, that your husband wants sexual relations more often than you do. Martin Luther said he found twice a week to be ample protection from the tempter. I don’t know if Katie was up for it every time or not. But if you’re not, give it anyway. I do not say to you husbands, “Take it anyway.” In fact, for her sake you may go without. The goal is to outdo one another in giving what the other wants. Both of you, make it your aim to satisfy each other as fully as possible.

         

        Culled from – Preparing for Marriage Resources from John Piper

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      • Queen bed Asked on January 2, 2020 in Chit Chat, Jokes, and More .

          Really!

          Thats great

          Congrats.

          Hmm, I know a number of wives  will sometimes say NO to sex.

          How did you achieve that?

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        • Queen bed Asked on December 30, 2019 in Question of the Day.

            Hahahahaaaa

            I would love to do anything for my DW ONLY that would make her feel good and happy. I would want to be sure its for only her.

            I know would do same for me.

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          • Queen bed Asked on December 19, 2019 in Oral Sex.

              Hmm MARRIAGE !

              Marriage is difficult work.

              Almost every marriage have issues.

              Yours is even better Sir. Some wives refuse their husbands sex very often. They will always say NO. I dont understand myself why a wife should refuse her own husband sex. Sex is part of marriage and I expect that christian wives will see sex as part of marriage while they were praying God to give them a godly husband.

              Dear Wife refusing your husband sex is sin against your husband and God, please beware.

              Folks please let us talk more about sex. Please let us discuss how the sex art should be carried out and try and address the issues why one party should often be refusing the other.

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            • Queen bed Asked on December 19, 2019 in Body Parts & Care (Shaving, penis/breast size, tats/piercing).

                I do not know of a Christian site that handles issues of small or micro penis.

                One thing I know penis come in different sizes and they are all pretty no matter the size and shape. Same with vulva’s.

                The issue will be whether you admire and enjoy what your husband have and if he also likes it. If you do and he does not , you should encourage him . If both of you dont like his penis and enjoy it then , I will tell you to talk it over with God the creator. All that God did is beautiful.

                Having a big beautiful penis does not really mean that your partner will enjoy it . The real enjoyment comes in knowing how to use it. Also the vagina has been designed to accommodate any penis size. The sensitive portions on the vagina are just about 3 inches deep. So please just encourage yourself and enjoy.

                 

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              • Queen bed Asked on October 9, 2019 in Sexually Refused .

                  SeekingChange I like your response.

                  Yes, as Christians we must surrender all the time. We get saved/born again when we surrender all to the Lord Jesus Christ. When trouble arise, the christian is first to say sorry even if he/she is 100% right. We want to live peaceably with all men.

                  In marriage too a Christian surrenders all to his/her spouse.  So in a Christian marriage words like “marital rape” cannot be found in their dictionary or laws. Because we belong to our spouse and our spouse belong to us.

                  3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

                  The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

                  Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 1 Corinthians 7:3-5.

                   

                  However, sometimes there are problems. When the enemy brings the problem we take it to our Saviour to fix it and He does a perfect job.

                  Thank God for Jesus Christ.

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                • Beautiful question. I really love this question and it makes me see this platform as a Christian platform. Wish we can have more of such discussions.

                  Now to the issues. I believe that scripture explains itself. I like how SC  answered it.

                  Wives are to submit and that’s what God expects of them.

                  What is expected of wives in relation to submission regarding marriage bed- its still to submit. I believe in 1 Corinthians 7:4,5 Apostle Paul introduced another instruction.

                  For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

                  So if in submission there is a problem, the wife should discuss her wish with her husband and an agreement can be reached.

                  We cannot leave the husbands duty out of all this. God requires the husband to love unconditionally. If a man loves his own wife, he will be prepared to listen to the wive when she raises  a point for discussion.

                  if the husband desires to have her do a certain position he likes yet she doesn’t want to, would verse 24 mean she is sinning?

                  If the husband desires OS and she doesn’t want to, would verse 24 nullify that preference?”

                  Technically speaking per verse 24 she will be sinning if she refuses, but per 1 Corinthians 7: 5, the wive can bring the issue up for discussion and an agreement can be reached.

                  I want to believe that if all Christian couples will practice what the Word of God says and obey it, we will have blissful marriages right here on earth . God bless you.

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                • We shower together sometimes. We enjoy it. We have not tried having sex in the shower but a number of times we  do have some foreplay.

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                • Queen bed Asked on September 30, 2019 in Question of the Day.

                    Hahahahaaaaaaa watch DW  masturbate ? She won’t masturbate when am around.

                    So I will watch her shower. I like watching her beautiful and wonderfully made body while she shower.

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