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  • Under the stars Asked 13 hours ago in Menopause .

      I have no experience with that medicine nor this situation.  Taking into account your other question about your husband, it sounds like your sex life could be coming to a stand still, would that be correct?

      A preventive tip:  I don’t know how much you read, or how informed you are in this area, but if you ever see sex as a possibility in your future (remarriage, etc), “use it so you don’t lose it”.  Regular blood flow to the vaginal walls, via arousal, helps keep them healthy.  IIRC, masturbation is just as effective as actual intercourse.

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    • Or that they prey on those they see as “weak” privately in PMs.

      These are great questions, and ones I have no doubt Dale will take into consideration.

      I do know it’s possible for accounts to be deleted, which has happened before. It’s not fool proof because they could open another account, but at least they would be starting back at zero.

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    • Under the stars Asked 15 hours ago in SIN.

        Yes, it’s grounds for divorce.  And in my opinion, you would be free to remarry unless the Holy Spirit convicts you otherwise.

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      • Under the stars Asked 15 hours ago in SIN.

          Simply, absolutely yes.

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        • I have nothing to offer but prayers for healing, wisdom, peace, strength, perseverance and that Jesus will be everything you need through this. But I am angry with you by the destruction others sin can do.

          I was just watching a show today with a similar story, but of course it didn’t dig so deep into this side of things… but as I was watching the show, and listening to you, husbands who marry these broken and abused women have a special call on them. As a believer, the Lord had to know and believe that you would be the best tool to work through to show your wife love, commitment, and to help bring her healing and wholeness. And at the same time, He is doing a sanctifying work in you.

          Praying for you and your wife.

          This answer accepted by WifeysWarrior. 15 hours ago Earned 15 points.

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        • Under the stars Asked 17 hours ago in Chit Chat, Jokes, and More .

            😀 Funny

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          • Under the stars Asked 1 day ago in Activities & Items .

              For me, kissing is much more of a barometer of where I feel emotionally in life and with my husband, than sex is.  I can relate to Julia Roberts character in Pretty Woman.  The more emotionally disconnected I am, or need emotional distance…the further I want things from my face and lips. (Sensory overload)

              That being said, my husband is persistent to get hello and goodbye kisses (a peck, quick or lingering), which is several times a day, and if he doesn’t immediately leave after the first goodbye kiss, he comes for another, but it’s still common for me to resist them in my own way.  This is one of those little things I am focusing on to move to “thriving”, greeting him with a smile, followed by puckered lips.

              Big kisses happen when I am emotionally open and available.

               

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            • Under the stars Asked 1 day ago in Question of the Day.

                This question was making me think about my husband and “how he has teased me”, and I can think of attempts but there were no “best ways”, and @Chelle’s answer fits with what I was thinking.  It was along these lines….. can someone be teased with something, if they really have no, or little, interest in it?  My husband may think he’s teasing me, because the same actions would be a tease to him, but when there’s little to no interest in what they are trying to allure us to, it’s an irritant rather than a tease.

                @Chelle, I am sorry you aren’t getting the experience you crave and what is a part of God’s design for marriage. 🙁

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              • It does help us grow, if we allow it 🙂  Thanks for sharing, it makes me smile! It’s definitely a praise!

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              • Under the stars Asked 1 day ago in Question of the Day.

                  I am the teaser between us.

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