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Blanket on a secluded beach!
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  • Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on March 27, 2020 in Intercourse (PIV) & Positions.

    What about you on your side with legs at a 45 degree angle.  He on his knees with one leg over your lower leg and then bent at the knee under that leg.  He can enter from this position.  Its tight and intimate.  I don’t know the name of it, but who cares.

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  • Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on March 27, 2020 in Attitudes About Sex (Self image, be intentional, sexual awakening, nudity/modesty).

      My preference is to be methodical, organized, prioritized and one who executes a plan.  But I have learned that my ways do not result in the best experiences for my family.  My wife is not that way and while she will put up with my leadership in some things like camping and factions of house order, and other leadership areas, it is she and the kids who preferred a relaxed and experience oriented preference of events.  This is true in the bedroom, where the best way to her heart is to back off my preferences.   And I have learned that encouraging her by doing for her those things that are comfortable for her is what I ultimately enjoy the best anyway.

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    • Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on March 26, 2020 in Question of the Day.

        Right tilters, and that pretty much ends the kissing.

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      • Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on March 25, 2020 in Question of the Day.

          Well now, maybe four states and only the greatest nation on earth.  And, two of the four are the largest states on the map.   But, now there is a reason for the lack of productivity while we have been to most of the continental states.   Its hard with one room and heavy schedules that are structured around the family and kids activities.  Travel, as SC has said is not a great time for sex.  it is tiring and exhausting.

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        • Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on March 24, 2020 in Desire Problems (men and women).

           

          The honeymoon is over and the reality of marriage has set in.  The differences between your physical/phycho sexual histories/beliefs and practices have begun to clash and likely other areas within your marriage as well.  Welcome to marriage.  Believe it or not, much of this is normal and requires your unified growth to produce fruit that you both will enjoy.  This area of the sexual union is your hot button and it seems not his.  Have you asked yourself what are his hot buttons that are not yours?  Are not these conflicts the little foxes that spoil the vines of your marital garden, (Song 2:15)?

          A modified business model applicable here would be to Plan, Implement a program, Evaluate, Revise the plan and adjust the program as needed.

          Plan – read and educate yourself on the situation. Pray for wisdom, direction, guidance and most of all the will of the Lord to be revealed in your marriage. Add to that seminars and/or an education program.

          I will stop there with the view that there is hope, but like the rest of marriage it takes work.

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        • Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on March 24, 2020 in Question of the Day.

            I agree with JLoydH, that I would have to “say goodbye to ever doing it again.”  We were kind of caught by her friends who walked in to our apartment one Sunday afternoon.  That was after I had been warned to close, lock, seal, bolt down…everything!  I would then have to major apologize to her.  I could not imagine getting caught by a neighborhood kid.  If it was his word against mine, I would have to own up.

            There is a popular book out by a Christian author who says she was caught sunbathing in the buff in her back yard by a neighbor kid.

            I was called to a jury but not put in the final seating for an exposure case.  I could not imagine being on trial for that….reputation gone, income gone, ministry gone…

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          • Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on March 23, 2020 in Question of the Day.

              In the pool and the gardens at night it she sum total of our experience.  Its and incredible experience and I would love to make love under an apple tree in the back yard.  But – I recall as a child, maybe 6 or 7 yrs old, walking along a resort river bank and looking across at a home with large bay floor to ceiling windows with the rest of our all boy group to see a couple in their throws of LM.  That was not a good site for a me or the other fellows who hooped and hollered until the couple took notice and pulled the drapes closed.  Often I have picked up condoms on Sunday morning in the church parking lot.  More often than that I have interrupted foggy window cars with couples in various dress and those without any on warm summer nights, to tell them,”This is not a good place to park.   You need to move on.” – I just would not want to be the indelible mark in some kids memory for that reason.  But, it does happen with the best of precautions and intentions.

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            • Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on March 22, 2020 in Attitudes About Sex (Self image, be intentional, sexual awakening, nudity/modesty).

                As a self-certified HDr I will speak.  Novel is good and the novelty of something sexually new to us can be incredible, but sometimes it has been nothing more than an $85 dollar sex toy flop.  And sometimes its a heavily pursued cost-free sexual endeavor that for the both of us just was just silly.  But the opposite can be true as well.  For example like when a  new position in a new place shook our bed, however momentarily.  Many times the novel has been in the middle, implying we might have just left it alone.    I have come to believe that the experience of the sexually novel, the new experience of a sexual episode,  should be few and far between.  I have found that my heart needs the balance of contentment and that the hunger for the novel would otherwise too often displace.  Now, It is true that the same sexual stimulation, in the same patterns, can become routine, very routine even mentally boring.  It is times like those that variation is important.  However, variation is not the newness my heart longs for.   Variation is the tool or expression of the contentment that novelty helped us establish.  Novelty experienced at the right time has been important to aid us in establishing sexual variations that have become our sexual expressions of contentment with one another.

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              • Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on March 21, 2020 in None of The Above.

                  We have not gone online.  We will be a couple of weeks until we get there.  But we are communicating and online by email messages every four days.

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                • Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on March 21, 2020 in Body Parts & Care (Shaving, penis/breast size, tats/piercing).

                    I don’t know if it is a fetish or a  preference.  However, I do see the principle of living with contentment at what you have, (Phil 4:11).

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