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  • We are pretty affectionate at home, hugging kissing etc. in front of the kids, dh will sometimes smack my butt as he walks by.  He has no qualms about holding hands or sitting with his arm around me in public either.  Dh is a bit more reserved about PDA than I am (touch is my primary LL and not high up on his list so that’s probably part of it).  He will kiss me in public, a quick smooch type kiss but only in certain scenarious usually where we are around people we know and he feels comfortable with.   He is funny about kissing at church too, it makes him uncomfortable.  Once I sat on his lap at church during a Wednesday night group game (he was off to the side of the room watching the younger kids play) and he said he wasn’t sure I should be sitting on his lap at church.   I do wish he would seek me out for physical affection more (it seems to be usually me going to him for physical affection more than the other way around)  especially in public  as there is something very affirming in that.

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  • I have no idea but thanks for making us aware.  If needed I will be pm’ing dale instead of using the report feature so I not to take the risk!

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  • On the floor Asked 5 days ago in Question of the Day.

      lacy underwear/thong of my mom’s when doing laundry, not really that embarassing but its all I’ve got.

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    • On the floor Asked on January 9, 2020 in Activities & Items .

        We’ve used a cucumber before, we didn’t bother with a condom, just washed it throughly with soap.  Just make sure you get all the prickly hairs off first.  They do come in a range of sizes especially if you go to a farmstand instead of a typical grocery store.

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      • Specific details no, that’s only between my husband and I.  Generalities in terms of problem solving (getting advice or helping a friend) yes.  Things like lube reccomendations, ways to be intentional about initiating, humorous stories of being interupted by children etc.  But details about actual encounters no.

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      • On the floor Asked on January 9, 2020 in Question of the Day.

          We don’t usually crack jokes during sex, we will occasionally laugh if something goes wrong in a humorous way.  We do however joke around about sex a lot during the course of a regular day.  Lots of double entendres, and euphamisms.  We are watching the show Gold Rush right now and it it provides lots of fodder…”glory hole” (we’ve adapted that with our own heterosexual meaning) “chunky nuggets” etc.

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        • On the floor Asked on January 8, 2020 in Question of the Day.

            The closest we have come to being “caught” was when a close friend of mine came in our house one day while we were in the middle of things.  She was picking up a vehicle and didn’t know we were home because our cars were in the garage.  She let herself in the use the bathroom (as she has done many times before with our blessing).  We were upstairs in our bedroom mid romp but stopped abruptly when we heard the door open and close and the dog barking.  We both threw on clothes and ran down to see who it was, looking rather rumpled and I think my shirt was on inside out.  I don’t know if she figured out what she interrupted but neither of us ever mentioned it.  Maybe someday I’ll tell her and we will get a good laugh out of it.

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          • On the floor Asked on January 8, 2020 in Question of the Day.

              Best is probably comments about my hair, as a child/teen I hated it and was often teased by other children but he loved/s it from the moment we met and was not shy about telling me which over years and years I have come to believe and it has helped me come to appreciate it.  He’s also made comments during sex about appreciating the view and I can tell by his tone how sincere they are.

              Worst I honestly can’t think of a negative comment he’s made about my appearance off the top of my head (save giving an honest opinion on if an outfit is flattering when I’ve asked him for his honest opinion).  There might be something but since I can’t think of it I’m not going to spend any time trying, better to dwell on the good.

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            • On the floor Asked on January 2, 2020 in Activities & Items .

                We have a vibrator that we use for the purpose of stimulating my g-sppot (among other things).  It wasn’t specifically designed for that but the shape seems to work really well for that purpose for me.  I don’t use the vibrating function of it (vibration seems to make me numb bordering on painful) but rather a slight in and out movement (not coming all the way out and going back in again but more like rocking in place) is what seems to work for me.   Like SocttandZelda we use it coupled with oral sex.  I wish I could link you specific one I have but it was a freebie that was included in with an online order we placed years ago and I have no idea what its even called.  It is a fairly skinny “wand”  with an egg shape at the very end.  My suggestion would be to look for something with a shape similar to an egg.

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              • On the floor Asked on January 2, 2020 in Question of the Day.

                  My worth comes from what I do, create, produce, being a good fill in the blank: wife, mother, friend).

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