Sex in the Shower

    This has become a favorite in our Marriage. Have you been successful? Has it been just the beginning?

    On the floor Asked on January 19, 2020 in Polls.
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    Results of this poll

    31 Votes
    32% Tried but couldn't get it to work
    26% We LOVE IT!
    19% We use it as Foreplay for the final act elsewhere
    10% Other - Explain below
    6% We like our "own space" and "water temperature", so nevermind
    3% We'll stick with Oral only in the shower
    3% That looks dangerous!

    13 Comments

    • SeekingChange January 19, 2020

      You need an “other” option 🙂 because I can’t select any of those options. We have done it multiple timed, we will do it again, because my husband has a whole new set up now, that we haven’t used. But I wouldn’t say, “I LOVE IT”. We do it for the novelty, or as an alternative. It’s one way to get sex in when there aren’t private sleeping arrangements when traveling/vacationing.

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    • ALL_IN January 19, 2020

      and here I thought I had it all covered… guess not

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      • SeekingChange January 19, 2020

        Can’t you go back in and add it?

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        • ALL_IN January 19, 2020

          I don’t know

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        • ALL_IN January 19, 2020

          looks like you gave your “other option” opinion anyway, so changing it isnt nessesary

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          • SeekingChange January 19, 2020

            Except you can’t see the results without voting.

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            • ALL_IN January 19, 2020

              then I suppose you’re voting for something you don’t want to say in order to see the results, or you’ll have to skip this poll

    • runningwithdog January 19, 2020

      I was listening to a podcast this past week (perhaps Sexy Marriage Radio?) where someone wrote in and asked if sex in the shower was actually real. Said until another couple claimed otherwise, they had thought is was like Hollywood sex, where everything is perfect the first time with nothing but total passion and multiple simultaneous orgasms. In other words, it didn’t exist.

      The host were a riot in answering. One of them was HD and one was LD. They both shared their initial reaction to when they first heard of shower sex. The HD was like “sounds hot and wild”. The LD was like “who gets the water, because the other will be cold. What about slipping? It’s cramped in there. Don’t we need handrails. The logistics seem like a lot of work”. This went on for a couple of minutes and they were a riot.

      In the end, they did talk about the logistical preparation and ways to perhaps build up to full intercourse if that is what you want to do. Have to admit we have not done it and in our late 50s are not likely to start. I’d probably hurt something!!! (Unless we can remodel with 2 shower heads and a bench. Hmm….)

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    • Chelle January 20, 2020

      Its great for a quickie.

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    • Epaminondas January 20, 2020

      We’ve tried in the past and standing rear entry just isn’t comfortable for DW so we don’t. We do use it for foreplay sometimes and then have sex in bed afterwards.

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    • RandB January 20, 2020

      We’ve tried it a few times as foreplay, or ‘afterplay’, but our height differences make actually doing it in the shower very difficult. If it involves water, we much prefer a hot tub.

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    • Crazydaddy January 20, 2020

      We have, and will do it again. I went with the closest answer. We like it, not love it, but it only works for us if we are able to have a quickie, like if it’s been a few days or we’re otherwise ramped up. If I get too hot, its game over. We can only do standing rear entry, so DW can’t stand with her head down for long either. When we’re both in the mood for a quickie though, the shower is fun.

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    • Duchess January 20, 2020

      I picked the “Oral only” choice, but really, only he gets that in the shower. I think a lot depends on the size and shape of the shower; like someone else mentioned, handrails and other safety issues; how much of the shower area the water spray covers at once. But it also has to do with bodies and how they fit together. Someone mentioned height; when DH’s penis hits just a tad below my belly button, that’s going to require some finagling to get the proper parts in proper proximity. Maybe we’re doing it wrong, but unless we get a new bathroom with some distinctly sex-purposed design features, this one kinda is like Hollywood sex for us.

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    • mcgruff January 20, 2020

      We love being sexual in the shower but have only had IC in the shower once. The idea of IC in the shower is completely sexy, but we just couldn’t figure out a way to make it comfortable. But showers together with lots of making out and hands going everywhere and being close up against each other is definitely my idea of a good time. We use it foreplay sometimes and sometimes if we are foregoing IC for some reason we’ll use it to finish me off.

      One unique thing about most of our shower experiences is that they generally begin clothed, usually in jeans and reasonably dressy tops. It’s a huge turn-on for me that my DW has fortunately become quite willing to embrace.

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    • SeekingChange January 21, 2020

      One benefit of a small shower, you have walls that hedge you in, to keep you from falling :D. Just don’t lean against the door 😉

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    • Twue_Wuv January 21, 2020

      We do it from time to time. It’s a bit for difficult and exhausting, therefore it doesn’t happen very often. But, we don’t have anything against it.

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    • Scott+Zelda January 21, 2020

      We went with “Tried but couldn’t get it to work”. Lack of lubrication was a huge problem. We have done a small amount of oral in the shower–in fact, the last time Zelda was really into giving oral was in my dad’s shower–but Scott receiving OS is effectively off the table these days. Maybe with the vibe, which ends up giving us better lubrication, it might be worth trying again.

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    • Oldbear January 21, 2020

      Other – masturbation, only. Too risky for more frisky activities!

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