In marriage, how do you find the balance between needing to share your real feelings of hurt, and showing love by overlooking a transgression?

Question 1

In marriage, how do you find the balance between needing to share your real feelings of hurt, and showing love by overlooking a transgression?

Recently, I was reading some older questions on TMB, and a few times I came across people saying something fairly …

MQ Queen bed Asked on June 22, 2020 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

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Question 2

Myers-Briggs personality types and your marriage

Just wondering if people know/care about what their and their spouses’ Myers-Briggs personality types are and how that affects your …

mcgruff Queen bed Asked on May 23, 2020 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

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Question 3

How many struggle with this?

Is anyone else at war with clutter? If so, have you seen the anxiety, depression-clutter-anxiety, depression cycle in your life? …

Duchess Under the stars Asked on May 22, 2020 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

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Question 4

Would this bother you?

I am wondering how you would react and if you would be bothered under this scenario? Your spouse and a …

SeekingChange Under the stars Asked on May 22, 2020 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

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Question 5

Dreams – are they meaningful?

My DW got up a few days ago and told me about a dream she had. In her dream I …

LBD On the floor Asked on May 21, 2020 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

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Question 6

3 of Us

I will start this post saying I am from Europe (sorry for my English) and my husband is American. Idk …

Gosh88 Twin bed Asked on May 16, 2020 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

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Question 7

What is the definition of respect?

Often I notice that women tend to misunderstand respect as we see it in the Bible. Also, the two words, …

C. Joseph King bed Asked on May 16, 2020 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

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Question 8

Deal-breakers…. did you &/or would you have them to marry?

I have recently discovered Married At First Sight, thanks to Netflix adding a season. That show has brought up a …

SeekingChange Under the stars Asked on May 11, 2020 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

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Question 9

How do you help each other when you both have the same problem?

I’m coming back after an absence with a personal question today. I’ve mentioned before that I struggled with emotional challenges, …

Duchess Under the stars Asked on May 4, 2020 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

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Question 10

Article- “Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds”

This article is not about marriage specifically but read it with communication about marriage and sex in mind, and see …

Communication

SeekingChange Under the stars Asked on April 15, 2020 in Other (Other non-sexual marriage issues.).

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Answer 1

Hi TinyTim, I am 32 and currently on TRT because my T levels were that of an 80 year old...

Answer 2

Hi Bev So sorry you are going through this. I dealt with infidelity of all types in my first marriage...

Answer 3

Bev, my heart is broken for you and your situation as I understand very well what it means to be...

Answer 4

We have found that soft, flat pillows really don't help much. Sure they are good for comfort and such, but...

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PPK, I'm glad to hear things are improving. I will mention this, yes, counseling can be expensive depending on where...

Answer 6

Sorry to hear of your sad story. The pain and disappointment, naturally will make you feel numb. It is only...

Answer 7

We do that when DH is on top. I put my feet by my ears, or over his shoulders. The...

Answer 8

Was just scrolling through posts and saw this... Your recent posting has indicated a much more enthusiastic wife in the...

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Pillows don't really work for us because DW says it arches her back uncomfortably but a bit of elevation can...

Answer 10

"Sleep sexing" would be a no, and I think we'd both worry about consent issues. However, my DW's first dozen...

Answer 11

Sleep sexing, like sleep walking. Nope. That's never happened. Though, we may have both been frisky at times while asleep.

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We used to do this, but haven't for a long time. I think it made PIV easier and more pleasurable....

Answer 13

We use a pillow under her backside quite often. It improves the angle!

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I was having a dream one morning, of having sex with my DW. I woke up when I was about...

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We have used pillows and/or a wedge for a long time. I think in every position except side of the...

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