Husband has low-T and minimal desire for sex, we are young, I’m going to a dark place

Question 1

Husband has low-T and minimal desire for sex, we are young, I’m going to a dark place

Hi people, I made an account to post this. I’m not sure really what I hope to accomplish by this …

AtALoss Twin bed Asked on April 21, 2020 in Sexually Refused .

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Question 2

Disappointment after Vday… Am I being to sensitive?

Hey all. I want to start by saying this post is NOT to take sides or point fingers at my …

Hubz Queen bed Asked on February 15, 2020 in Sexually Refused .

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Question 3

Husband of a fatherless daughter

My wife and I have been married for 27 years. She grew up without a father and went down the …

Bradpiper Cot Asked on January 6, 2020 in Sexually Refused .

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Question 4

How do find it in you to not give up trying?

I can feel myself growing colder towards my husband, and I don’t know that it’s something that I feel inclined …

Wren Queen bed Asked on October 8, 2019 in Sexually Refused .

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Any advice?

I have been married for over 17 years, and we have a beautiful 9 year old girl and a 13 …

Christianbuthuman Cot Asked on October 5, 2019 in Sexually Refused .

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Which is easier to deal with, “can’t” or “won’t”?

When your spouse is unavailable for sex, which response is easier to cope with? Can’t, or Won’t? For definition, “Can’t” …

Jpops California King Asked on July 16, 2019 in Sexually Refused .

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Question 7

Coping with sexual refusal from spouse.

Sexual refusal from a spouse is a very difficult thing to handle when horny . What do you do when …

Sam King bed Asked on June 26, 2019 in Sexually Refused .

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Question 8

Sexual Refusal – Not a One Size Fits All

When it comes to sexual refusal, I have noticed that my reactions have historically been very similar from one case …

Patient_Kind Queen bed Asked on May 23, 2019 in Sexually Refused .

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What was the reason you were most recently refused?

What was the reason you were most recently refused? What was your reaction? How quickly were you able to continue …

Patient_Kind Queen bed Asked on May 19, 2019 in Sexually Refused .

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Question 10

When does refusal becomes physical abuse?

Hello, It’s been some time since I posted, fact the old forums was up when I did my last post. …

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Mark_11_22_23 Twin bed Asked on April 22, 2019 in Sexually Refused .

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Answer 1

Yes, I have them. Rarely share them. DW is a vanilla, LD, responsive only, but usually willing wife. Sharing fantasies...

Answer 2

Yes, yes, and yes. Yes, I have fantasies, and they do involve my DW and I have shared them with...

Answer 3

Wife's not cared for the role play ideas (although she's seemed a little more open to "the cabana boy" with...

Answer 4

Why add the temptation to your marriage bed? Why not avoid it go on your own journey together with your...

Answer 5

I agree with SC. To quote the robot on the old Lost in Space series back in the day "Danger,...

Answer 6

@Crazydaddy . . . Woodworking? One of my favorite things to fantasize! Thinking about and fantasizing about designs, techniques, tools,...

Answer 7

@manalive, I’m not a fan of the decision to include singles, esp. when they are giving sex advice, including how...

Answer 8

I would say they play a fun part! Yes, we both have them and are very comfortable sharing. However, they...

Answer 9

For me, I feel like the word "fantasy" refers to something that isn't real. I prefer to call fantasizing, "daydreaming,"...

Answer 10

"..do your thoughts about sex only, mostly, or occasionally revolve around your spouse?" Mostly It really depends on how our...

Answer 11

On the actual videos you are speaking of, I believe they are a "bad idea". Though it may not be...

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If you want a massage video without nudity, check out MELT: Massage for Couples. (I would add a link, but...

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@manalive, when they reformatted TMB, they dropped a lot of the old rules, including the one around singles. Personally, I...

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If she asks you to stop contacting her, you need to learn from your mistakes and move on. DO NOT...

Answer 15

Yep, we’ll said manalive.. Exactly my point. When we regularly have sexual relations with our spouse, they are the one...

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