04/01/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day

    In the hypothetic scenario where you have to tell your closest friends either (a) your favorite sex position or (b) that you use toys* in the MB, which of the following would you do?

    1. Tell them your favorite position.
    2. Tell them that you use toys (realizing their may be follow-up questions, such as “which ones?”).
    3. Tell them both! No prudes here!
    4. Tell them neither, thus no longer being their friend.

    *For those that don’t use toys, please say so and replace “toys” with anything “odd” that you have used for sexual pleasure (kind of like the 02/20/20 QOTD).

    Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on April 1, 2020 in Question of the Day.
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      I just want to add a comment…. it was because of a friend who was willing to openly talk about her love for sex and her husband, even though it wasn’t the details being asked about here (though I know she would have if asked), that led me to changing in my own marriage. We never know what kind of impact our openness can have. So I encourage us believers to quit being so ashamed, so we can have a healthy impact on marriages in this world!

      Under the stars Answered on April 1, 2020.

      Well said!

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        I have no qualms about sharing what would be helpful to close friends, and some family. My DH says nothing about me is surprising anymore, and I suspect some other acquaintances of mine think the same about me, too, so why not share something that might be helpful? In the right time and conversation, though.

        Under the stars Answered on April 1, 2020.
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          I would choose 1. Tell them your favorite position.

          Reasoning:

          A. We don’t use any toys currently and I can’t think of anything odd that we do at the moment.

          B. I have already intimated to a friend (our Sunday School leader no less) that my favorite position is doggy style.

           

           

          On the floor Answered on April 1, 2020.
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            If it was me, I’d tell them both!

            I believe it is important to be open and help others. So, given the right situation and the right people, I would share for their benefit.

            DW would only share with our daughters.

            Under the stars Answered on April 1, 2020.

            You’re that open with your kids? Nice.

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              #3, I have no problem telling anyone anything in the right circumstances…. family, church people, friends, or strangers.

              Under the stars Answered on April 1, 2020.
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                I like talking about sex, so I would tell them my favorite position and anything “odd” that has helped us achieve pleasure over the years, especially if it helps their sex life.

                Fell out of ... Answered on April 1, 2020.
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                  I would think for me the first time sharing, even with a close friend, would be a little embarrassing or awkard.  After that I think it would get easier to talk about with them.  I think sharing the favorite position would be easier than sharing what toys are used, but maybe favorite position also includes toys.  That said, I would probably share both.  Like SC, it has to be the right circumstances, but probably would not include family.  That’s way too much information for them.  Not sure what anyone in my congregation would think…but then, maybe they already have a suspicion.  🙂 I’ve often wondered what any of them would say if they ever saw me going into the local toy shop.  Would they keep it to themselves?  Would they approach me about it?  It’s like the old tootsie pop commercial asking how many licks to get to the center? The world may never know.  The question now has me wondering about who I might even share that information with if given the opportunity.

                  On the floor Answered on April 1, 2020.
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                    As long as we’re telling and not demonstrating, #3.  That could get awkward.

                    Fell out of ... Answered on April 1, 2020.

                    Definitely not demonstrating! 😆

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                      I would have no issue talking about the value and pleasure of Liberator products. Toys? I’m not sure about. Positions or activities? I’m not so sure about either.  I know dear wife has shared a few things and activities.

                      With that said, HYPOTHETICALLY, if I “HAD to”, I’d say #3 since I’m definitely not a prude…and neither is DW.

                      Under the stars Answered on April 1, 2020.
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                        We know only one couple, that we are #3 on. That started when they walked in on my wife and I while we were, naked, and ‘busy’.

                        They had lots of questions, her to my wife, and later him to me.

                        Past them,  sex is something that we don’t talk about person to person.

                        Hammock Answered on April 1, 2020.

                        Is there a story behind this?

                        on April 1, 2020.

                        Well, it’s just what it seems. They got quite a view, and saw something they hadn’t ever done. (Oral)

                        Or, how to remember to lock the door!

                        🙂

                        on April 1, 2020.

                        Okay.  It just seems odd that a non-related couple would just come in your house without knocking.

                        on April 1, 2020.

                        It wasn’t our house. It was their guest cabin. And, she just didn’t think, and assumed we were ready to go out to dinner.

                        Whoopsie.

                        Stuff happens.

                        on April 1, 2020.

                        Maybe it’s wrong, but I’m super curious: fellatio or cunnilingus?

                        on April 1, 2020.

                        I don’t think it’s wrong.

                        Cunnilingus.

                        on April 1, 2020.

                        And you were already having dinner! 😉

                        on April 2, 2020.

                        Yes indeed! I certainly was!

                        on April 2, 2020.
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