07/08/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day

    In the 07/01/2020 QOTD, I asked for one word to describe something you want to see your spouse bring to your marriage bed.

    Today, I ask for the opposite: using one word, describe something you want to see yourself bring to your marriage bed. This can be an attitude, physical object, anything. I didn’t clarify this last week, but it can be something you already bring but recognize how different it would be without it.

    Clearly you can describe the why of your answer with many more words, but the answer to the question itself should be one word.

    Under the stars Asked on July 8, 2020 in Question of the Day.
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      I want to keep on bringing PASSION

      I believe passion will be an expression of the love and commitment we  have for each other in our marriage and marriage bed.

      Under the stars Answered on July 8, 2020.
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        DESIRE

        Under the stars Answered on July 8, 2020.
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          CREATIVITY.

          Under the stars Answered on July 8, 2020.
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            ENCOURAGEMENT

            DW has really come a long way in our MB the last year and a half. I’m striving to encourage her to grow in her sexuality so she will find our sex life to be as great as I do. I also encourage her because she doubts her abilities, even though she is great in bed!

            On the floor Answered on July 8, 2020.
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              SELF-CONFIDENCE

              I believe if I saw myself as sexy, then I would be more free to express it in bed.

              Cot Answered on July 8, 2020.
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                INITIATIVE – I want to help bring more creative positions, activities and experiences to our MB.

                King bed Answered on July 8, 2020.
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                  patience.

                  Hammock Answered on July 9, 2020.
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                    AFFIRMATION

                    Fell out of ... Answered on July 8, 2020.
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                      SELF-CONFIDENCE

                      ETA: I lack self-confidence in a lot of things I do. With DW being a former refuser the first half of our marriage didn’t help things. I’m still working on approaching her and initiating with confidence. She is turned on more by me approaching her and initiating confidently than if I hesitantly throw out hints.

                      I have improved from where I was 2 years ago, but lately, I’ve been under a lot of stress from everything going on. I haven’t been as confident or even had as much of a desire or drive to initiate as much. 

                      Hammock Answered on July 8, 2020.

                      ditto

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                        UNDERSTANDING

                        On the floor Answered on July 8, 2020.
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