07/29/2020 – Today’s Question(s) of the Day

    #1: What was the last marriage-bed-related compliment you received from your spouse?

    #2: What was the last marriage-bed-related compliment you gave your spouse?

    Under the stars Asked on July 28, 2020 in Question of the Day.
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      Received–in the lead up, something like, “you’re hot” or something equally  generic (he’s not a big verbal kind of guy.) During, I feel like his reaction to my ministrations is kind of a compliment.

      Given–I tend to overflow with all sorts of praise about his performance, his body, how he is endowed, how he made me feel, etc. etc. Last time that happened was…yesterday. Yesterday we were talking about Sunday and I raved about Sunday morning again.

      Under the stars Answered on July 29, 2020.

      My husband is much like you Duchess, he overflows with praises all the time, in and out of the bed.

      on July 29, 2020.
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        1. The only recent one I can really think of right now was sort of indirect. We were talking about sex and I said my period was coming any time. DH than said, “Your period comes around way too fast.” I took it as a compliment!

        2. Just last night I told him I liked him and I liked having sex with him. He didn’t reply so I poked him and asked if he had heard and if he believed me. He said ya, to both.

        Under the stars Answered on July 29, 2020.
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          1. I’m wracking my brain and can’t think of a single compliment from DW related to our marriage bed. I don’t think that’s a bad sign (?) as much as she is leery of encouraging me in the sexual arena because then I want more than she can provide (or so she thinks).

          2. I told her she was a great lover a couple days ago. She protested that I have no basis for comparison (true), to which I countered that I had almost 20 years with her and she continues to get even better as time progresses. I also told her being each others’ only experience means she knows me better than anyone, making her the most qualified lover for me.

          On the floor Answered on July 29, 2020.
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            “Mmmm…that was/is good.” That’s the most recent that I can recall, in giving and receiving, both in reference to oral skills, at different encounters.

            Under the stars Answered on July 29, 2020.
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              Received?  “Babe, you are a selfless and generous lover.”

              Given?  “Mmmmmmmmmmmm….(a lot of guttural sounds) that feels AMAZING!!! Wow, Babe, you look spectacular!”

              Under the stars Answered on July 29, 2020.
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                Received probably “that was fun” or maybe “oh its still light out, I will be able to SEE things!”

                Given “I needed that”

                (not sure if either count as a compliment but its the closest I can come up with).

                On the floor Answered on July 29, 2020.

                “I needed that” is absolutely a compliment in my book. While I kind of solicited it, Zelda recently said that and it made my day!

                -Scott

                on July 29, 2020.

                I have often said that and wondered if it made DH feel like he was just providing a service, like a stranger. Hoping he feels like you do instead!

                on July 29, 2020.

                Full disclosure: “Acts of Service” is one of the love languages I prefer to give (no receive), so that might color my view. However, her “needing that” at least somewhat indicates that she wants/needs me, which I really long to see/feel with a responsive-desire spouse.

                -Scott

                on July 29, 2020.
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                  #1  That was great.  Thank you.

                  #2  That was great.  Thank you.

                  We pretty much say a variety of that after every sexual encounter.

                  On the floor Answered on July 29, 2020.
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                    #1 (RECEIVED): We had just used our newest toy for internal vibrator stimulation on her while she used our go-to vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. After she O’d, I asked how it was. She said something like “the internal vibrations were nice, but I think I like your fingers better.” To me, that’s a huge compliment!

                    #2 (GIVEN): She recently had 2 O’s one night, then went on to get 2 O’s the following night! I thoroughly praised her for being willing to “want” more pleasure and accepting it. That now changes to our answer to a previous question about most number of O’s in a 24-hr period…either 3 or 4 for her now (not sure on the exact timing)!

                    -Scott

                    Under the stars Answered on July 29, 2020.
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                      We both said how great it was, thank you! 

                      On the floor Answered on July 29, 2020.
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                        Her: You know I love to watch you orgasm when you masturbate!

                        Me: Thank you for your generosity to take care of when a horny moment hits!

                        Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on July 29, 2020.
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