07/29/2020 – Today’s Question(s) of the Day
Received–in the lead up, something like, “you’re hot” or something equally generic (he’s not a big verbal kind of guy.) During, I feel like his reaction to my ministrations is kind of a compliment.
Given–I tend to overflow with all sorts of praise about his performance, his body, how he is endowed, how he made me feel, etc. etc. Last time that happened was…yesterday. Yesterday we were talking about Sunday and I raved about Sunday morning again.
1. The only recent one I can really think of right now was sort of indirect. We were talking about sex and I said my period was coming any time. DH than said, “Your period comes around way too fast.” I took it as a compliment!
2. Just last night I told him I liked him and I liked having sex with him. He didn’t reply so I poked him and asked if he had heard and if he believed me. He said ya, to both.
1. I’m wracking my brain and can’t think of a single compliment from DW related to our marriage bed. I don’t think that’s a bad sign (?) as much as she is leery of encouraging me in the sexual arena because then I want more than she can provide (or so she thinks).
2. I told her she was a great lover a couple days ago. She protested that I have no basis for comparison (true), to which I countered that I had almost 20 years with her and she continues to get even better as time progresses. I also told her being each others’ only experience means she knows me better than anyone, making her the most qualified lover for me.
#1 (RECEIVED): We had just used our newest toy for internal vibrator stimulation on her while she used our go-to vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. After she O’d, I asked how it was. She said something like “the internal vibrations were nice, but I think I like your fingers better.” To me, that’s a huge compliment!
#2 (GIVEN): She recently had 2 O’s one night, then went on to get 2 O’s the following night! I thoroughly praised her for being willing to “want” more pleasure and accepting it. That now changes to our answer to a previous question about most number of O’s in a 24-hr period…either 3 or 4 for her now (not sure on the exact timing)!