09/15/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day

    What’s been the last new (or like new) thing you have done or tried sexually…. whether it was 2 days, 2 years, 20 years, etc ago? (e.g. a toy, a position, a place, an act, etc.)

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      We haven’t tried that many new things lately – are we getting old or have we already tried most things? !

      However a “newer” thing for us is spending more time in foreplay for both of us – not just for her! Both are happy 😀

      Under the stars Answered 4 days ago.
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        We ordered a couple of toys, which we have never used before. They are ok, but so far prefer sex without them.

        Under the stars Answered 4 days ago.

        Didn’t know you’d taken the plunge on toys Brynna–congrats! I always thought you were the holdout here, having great success without them. 🙂

        4 days ago.

        Ya, success is better without them! They remain in the drawer most of the time. The funny thing is I got some cash for my birthday awhile ago. The note on there was ‘Buy something for yourself with this’. Yourself being underlined. I told DH if the giver ever knew what I had bought…..oh dear. But, I knew she would never ask so we took the plunge. So, they mostly remain unused.

        4 days ago.
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          Bent her over a downed tree in the woods! It was her idea and AWESOME! (yeah, it was real sweaty and a little difficult for me to finish, but I’d do it again in a heartbeat.)

          Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered 4 days ago.

          Awesome!  How recent was this?

          4 days ago.

          few weeks ago

          4 days ago.
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            This question has made me realize its been a while since we’ve tried anything new.  Guess its time to start thinking in that direction.

            Probably the most recent new thing we’ve tried is incorporating a  food that we’ve never used before in sex.

            On the floor Answered 2 days ago.
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              We used the 69 position a few weeks ago for the first time in many years with pretty good results. Wife has never been very comfortable with OS on her, but finally got tired of me bringing up the need for a little variety.

              Fell out of ... Answered 4 days ago.
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                I surprised DW yesterday morning stepping into the shower with her for the “first time” in about 5 years.  We have 2 young (7 & 10) grandchildren and their dad staying with us until they can move into their new home and our LM has taken a hit for the last 6 weeks due to her shyness about any of them “knowing what’s going on”…  but the exhaust fans and the shower was enough noise for her to get comfortable and our sex was GREAT!  We were concerned that the shelf/seat in the corner of our shower might not hold our weight.  (I’m taking a little stool in the next time.)

                We used to take frequent showers together when we were young but we both had forgotten how much fun they can be… and the clean-up was fun too!  In the future, more personal attention will be paid to each other’s hygiene at our house… after all Cleanliness is next to Godliness!

                On the floor Answered 4 days ago.

                we got one of those corner stools installed in our shower. I watched them put it in, and I have sat on it by myself, but I’m not sure I would trust it with both our weights….as if that would ever happen anyway.  After the last time I entered the shower with my wife, I vowed I’d never do that again. Given conversations of late, I may need to consider going back on myself. Not sure if I can handle the rejection that is sure to come and that is really the only thing keeping me from it. Perhaps that is the growth opportunity I need.

                4 days ago.

                Go for it!  DW resisted too but I would not be deterred and she “came around” (pun intended)!

                4 days ago.
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                  About a week ago we tried a new PIV position; her at the edge of the bed with me standing at the side of the bed, with her legs on my shoulders. She is doing yoga and is getting more flexible, but it was still uncomfortable for her so after a few minutes we went back to her favorite position which is missionary.

                  On the floor Answered 4 days ago.

                  The edge of our bed is fast becoming our favorite place/position.  We like it because it’s one position where we can adjust the angle of penetration by me widening my stance and her adjusting how far beyond the edge she is.  DW has had 2 spinal fusions and isn’t as flexible as she used to be, plus I’m about 10″ taller than her which keeps other positions (especially standing) from working for us.

                  4 days ago.

                  Olorin (and JLoydH) – we have our bed positioned at just the right distance from the wall so that her  feet can rest on the wall while in that position for either of us to get a “breather” from holding her legs if desired.

                  -Scott

                  4 days ago.

                  I feel you on the height difference JL. DW is 5’4″, I’m 6’1″, so about the same difference.  (this is part of her worry about shower sex – she’s afraid well fall and have to call for help while naked in the shower) We can achieve standing RE positions if I am willing to get some serious quad work in and she some serious calf work (not that that is a bad thing, just can’t sustain it for long periods.) It’s better if she puts on some nice heels (in more ways than one.) To help with the problem, I constructed a “F*****g Stool.” Yep, and that’s what we call it too. 🙂 Fits nicely under the bed, painted with a nice foam topper for her comfort. It makes for a nice changed up now and then. It made out of 2x lumber so very sturdy, is 6″ tall and works very well. I did have to put some non-skid tabs on it because it skidded on the hardwood if I got to…..exuberant.

                  4 days ago.

                  The position we had to do fresh out of neck surgery 😉  Congrats Olorin!  The majority of the time, we don’t end in the position we started in.

                  4 days ago.

                  You guys are cracking me up!  I just finished my workout and immediately after reading Scott’s suggestion, I stepped into our bedroom to see how far to adjust the bed… won’t work because her legs are short for one side which is the walkway into our bath,  footboard is too high, and windows on the other side.

                  . And LBD’s “custom-made” stool… LOL!!!  DW bought one of these https://www.kohls.com/product/prd-2180369/samsonite-folding-step-stool.jsp years ago to reach stuff high in the cupboard and I’m thinking it will be perfect… plenty strong heavy plastic which should be fine in the shower.  I can’t wait to give it a “road test”!

                  3 days ago.

                  As DW was heading to do her yoga she was looking for her ‘yoga block’ and asked me if I had seen it. I told I had not seen it and then she reminded me that we had ‘used’ it together for something other than yoga. I don’t remember how we used it, but given her smile when she was telling me this, I think I am going to help her look for that block!

                  3 days ago.
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                    The last “new” thing we did was a couple of years ago.  We put whip cream on each other and ate it off each other.  It was okay.  We need to try it again sometime, with something else to eat instead perhaps.

                    On the floor Answered 4 days ago.
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                      New couples toy on vacation.

                      With my personality and as a man, I hate the feeling of getting in a rut so in my mind, I try to make a conscious choice to change things up somehow every few months. How an encounter starts, new toy, position, get-away, activity, etc. I’m not a variety type of person when it comes to my food and other things but I guess this is my one exception for enjoying change.

                      Under the stars Answered 4 days ago.
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                        Introduced a new dildo a few months ago, to which my wife had a great O. She bought me a new anal vibrator. Bought a set of handcuffs recently – waiting for the right time. 🙂

                        Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered 4 days ago.
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