09/23/2020 – Today’s Questions of the Day

    Kind of the opposite of my question from last week

    What is one thing that is highly illogical but is commonly associated with your sex–either things they think or things they do? Bonus points if you think it’s illogical but still “suffer” from it.

    Under the stars Asked on September 23, 2020 in Question of the Day.
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      Something I have found illogical for females, are those who are so concerned with the look of their labia, they have surgery to “fix” them….. I never imagined a guy would care, and this has to be the influence of porn.

      Under the stars Answered on September 23, 2020.

      Definitely do NOT care about how it looks!!

      on September 23, 2020.

      As a guy, this sounds crazy! I can’t even imagine.

      on September 23, 2020.

      Yes, this is a growing thing…lots of insecurity about how one’s labia looks because of porn.  I didn’t know it was thing until a few years ago when it came up at a baby shower and almost every women there admitted to be ashamed of how their labia looked!  I have a large number of insecurities I am working to throw away, but I have never questioned how my labia looks.  That said, I have had minimal exposure to porn, example a friend showing me briefly her dad’s magazine collection.

      on September 23, 2020.

      Wheat… that reminds me of the “Tupperware Party” scene (except it wasn’t Tupperware) in the movie Fried Green Tomatoes. That scene, and the idea of surgery to “correct” what God made seems awful strange to me…   Is this “fix” something that is promoted by plastic surgeons or gynecologists?  Seems like female genital mutilation.

      I love DW’s and  would love to see more of it.

       

      on September 23, 2020.

      Also sounds crazy to me. I love the look of my DW’s lady bits. It’s sad that there are woman who are worried about how their genitals look.

      on September 24, 2020.
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        I have a hard time finding similarities with myself and those of my sex, but I’ll give it a go.

        Since we’re in that season…
        Pumpkin Spice. I don’t mind the scent, like it even, but I don’t understand the obsession.
        Maybe I’d feel differently if autumn was actually cold where I live, but it’s still sweltering and hot, so pumpkin spice just adds insult to injury.

        Hammock Answered on September 23, 2020.

        I like nothing pumpkin.

        on September 23, 2020.

        Not a pumpkin spice fan either!  Love fall though

        on September 23, 2020.

        Lol, this made me laugh!

        on September 23, 2020.

        This is funny, I also detest anything that’s pumpkin spice flavored.

        on September 23, 2020.

        I’m with you; I love the smell, but have no desire to taste anything pumpkins spice except PIE! (Or maybe bread/muffins.)

        on September 23, 2020.
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          So I suffer from this even though it is clearly illogical–I would love to have a much larger volume of ejaculate!

          This completely makes no sense to my wife, and if anything a smaller volume would be better since it’d be easier to clean up. But still, I can’t help thinking it’d be cool to have 2-4x more semen than I do. And while there’s a small percentage of women with a semen fetish, that’s certainly not my wife. (Note: this answer is a bit inspired by JLoydH’s 2nd answer from an April QOTD.)

          -Scott

          Under the stars Answered on September 23, 2020.

          Ummm Scott you’re in luck. “Holy Grail” of semen volume.

          We have found much benefit from a cocktail of supplements.

          Take pygeum for cowpers fluid (precum)
          Soy lecithin and or a teaspoon a day of celery seeds for the most increase of semen volume.

          Add zinc, L-arginine.

          I’ve gotten great results from this. Many of us have doubled if not quadrupled load size…

          Try it bro!

          on September 23, 2020.

          zink?

          I already take lecithin

          on September 23, 2020.
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            Ok, this is a weird one, but I think it’s completely illogical that women wax, thread or pluck their eyebrows and then buy eyebrow makeup filler. Really bizarre to me!

            On the floor Answered on September 23, 2020.
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              I wish I was a “show’er” and not a “grow’er”….. I’m fairly certain my DW wouldn’t prefer one over the other.

              King bed Answered on September 23, 2020.

              What does this mean?

              on September 23, 2020.

              Show’er = someone with a flaccid penis size that isn’t hugely different from the erect size.

              Grow’er = someone who exhibits a large change in penis size upon erection.

              Show’ers are the intimidating ones at a line of urinals or the “trough”. Grow’ers are the ones where their wives are surprised at the difference between “aroused” and “unaroused”.

              -Scott

              on September 23, 2020.

              Well said Scott!

              on September 23, 2020.

              Ahh. Makes perfect sense. Now puts words to something every man knows all too well!

              on September 23, 2020.

              Speaking  as the wife of a grow’er, there’s only so much you can enjoy from the show, but when there’s an awesome grow….well. Life. Is. Good. 😉

              Guys, if your wife says she is happy with your show, TRUST that she is being honest and is very happy!

              on September 23, 2020.

              Thanks @ Duchess

              on September 23, 2020.

              What about us “turtles”?  😆

              on September 23, 2020.
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                Similar to Scott’s answer, I’d like to “shoot” farther. It probably has to do with age but then again, I wouldn’t want anyone to get poked in the eye while messing around. 😀

                Under the stars Answered on September 23, 2020.

                Kegals!

                on September 23, 2020.
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                  Guys aren’t wired this way, (correct me if I’m wrong – and I know some of you will :-)), but I would like to have multiple orgasms/ejaculations in ML during the same session rather than having to wait for the customary “reload” time how ever long that takes. My wife can have 2 or 3 or 4 . For me, the mind is willing but the body has to wait.

                  Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on September 23, 2020.

                  Prolactin causes refractory period… if you can convince Defy to give you Cabergoline your wish might come true…

                  on September 23, 2020.
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                    Think that the female genitalia is “ugly”.   I still have that tendency even though i’ve taken deliberate steps to overcome it and as i’ve said before, i think it’s highly erotic now but not really attractive, pretty and definitely not beautiful.  I think a very large number of women think that way, they certainly do not take pride in it like men do theirs.

                    Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on September 23, 2020.
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                      Highly illogical…not sure if this qualifies, but the obsession of my gender with being skinny.  I have struggled with an eating disorder for a major portion of my life.  Even still, under stress or grief, I am highly tempted to start losing weight.

                      On the floor Answered on September 23, 2020.
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                        Hmm. I’m having a difficult time thinking of anything with this one. I’m looking forward to seeing more people respond to this so I can pull from more ideas.

                        Queen bed Answered on September 23, 2020.
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