11/19/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day
This one is easy. Before we agreed to scheduled sex (BTW this was a game changer in our MB!), it would be pouting, frustration, irritation, a bad attitude, and eventually a general annoyance with DW. Generally, exhibiting immature behavior which, of course, just made things worse.
We have a sweet, frequent enough, vanilla marriage bed. My wife is generous and usually willing as long as I am considerate on when I initiate and don’t push for more than 2-3 times per week. But I sometimes have a hard time letting go of my desire for her to be more sexual. It messes with my confidence and puts pressure on her if I bring up any conversation about growth in TMB.
I wish I could have a FAST and RELIABLE sexual response (you know, like a typical man has).
There are times when my head is totally in the game, but my body is very slow to respond, or stubbornly doesn’t respond. It is so frustrating, and I feel like I let my husband down, but I can’t fix it.
It would be very nice to have the typical man response to sex but it’s something you can’t force upon your body or MAKE it do something even if your so called head is in the game. Also it would be nice to get rid of the dread i have sometimes of having sex.