2/19/2020 – Today’s Question of the Day

    A two-fer for today! 🙂

     

    (1) On birthdays, do you always have birthday sex?  Why or why not?

    (2) What non-sexual songs get you in the mood and why?

    Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on February 19, 2020 in Question of the Day.
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      Almost always! Birthday or holidays we nearly always have sex. On my birthday, wife gives me sex without having to satisfy her first, which we very rarely do. We don’t do “sex just for him” anymore and haven’t in a few years.

      Fell out of ... Answered on February 19, 2020.
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        For my wife, yes, because I usually take her out on an overnighter somewhere for her birthday.  For my birthday, not necessarily.  We don’t plan sex, so if it happens, it happens.

        California King Answered on February 19, 2020.
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          We haven’t made having sex on birthdays a big thing or not. But that’s a very good idea. Maybe we can start this year.

          No songs get me in the mood, whether they are sexual or not.

          Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on February 19, 2020.
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            Usually we do! We seek to tailor the day and the sex to the liking of the one having the birthday because we want that day to more about the one having the birthday.

            Under the stars Answered on February 19, 2020.
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              We always have birthday sex, and it’s always wonderful!  We usually try and go somewhere new to stay the night, if at all possible, as well.

              California King Answered on February 19, 2020.
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                BS (Birthday Sex) is a privilege, a honor, a right, and a must.  We always do have BS.  What better present can be offered?   Let me tell you, cake does not compare to BS.  I may like a new pair of clippers, a sweater, a pair of slacks, but I love BS.

                Were not into any music associated with sex.  Its the left over from having kids in the same house when sexually active.

                Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on February 19, 2020.
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                  1. Absolutely, it’s the best present!

                  2. Island in the Sun by Weezer because it makes me happy and reminds me of being at the beach with DH.

                  Fell out of ... Answered on February 19, 2020.
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                    Back when I was more reticent about OS, we made a thing of BBJ (Birthday BJ) for him. Now he gets OS all the time willingly, so the BBJ is usually done to completion, or he can finish on my body part(s) of his choice. My birthday is so close to Valentine’s day that we just combine the two and always aim to have sex for at least one of them if not both.

                    So far every song that puts me in the mood that comes to mind is actually sexual, even if like most good 80’s songs it is sneaky about it.

                    Under the stars Answered on February 19, 2020.
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                      I’ll second what others have said about holiday sex—except for us it’s holiday eve sex. It started with Christmas Eve many years ago. Then one time when we had sex the night before some other holiday I commented on it being whatever eve, which must have been why we had sex that night. It’s not a certainty any Eve other than Christmas, but it’s a high likelihood. Nothing like a little Groundhog Day Eve sex or Flag Day Eve fooling around 😂

                      Fell out of ... Answered on February 19, 2020.
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                        (1) For his, yes, because that’s what he desires. For mine, more likely not, because that’s more of a gift for me.

                        I have to give (2) more thought.

                        Under the stars Answered on February 19, 2020.
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