5 Arousing Ways to Touch Your Spouse in Church. Any more?

    From Intimacy In Marriage, 5 Arousing Ways You Can Touch Your Spouse in Church.

    Do you have any other ways?

     

    It seems to me it would only be “arousing” if one is thinking it so.  When I (rarely) get to sit with my husband un church, I have done, and received, most all those things suggested fairly regularly.  I just considered them affectionate, not arousing.

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      After having heard from some pastors, I should let you know that you are being less clandestine than you think!

      Queen bed Answered on March 3, 2020.

      I guess at least they know who in their flock is happily married! 😛

      on March 5, 2020.
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        It has been so long since my DH sat with me in church, but I seem to recall he would prop one ankle on his opposite knee, so when his far leg was over his near one, I would caress his ankle/foot/lower calf.

        When he would put his arm around me low (not up at shoulder), he could move his fingers around and often brush the underside of my breast or tease at my bra with his finger tips (under my arm or between my back and the pew so no one would see.)

        Sometimes I would hug in on his upper arm and lean my head on his shoulder (as if I was just settling in to listen) but I would make sure to rub my breasts on his arm.

        It’s also relatively easy for him to sneak in a quick pat or caress to my butt, but that’s really anywhere, not just church.

        edited for typo

        Under the stars Answered on March 2, 2020.
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          Sitting close with arms crossed and my hand over her arm, allows me to gentle caress the side of her breast with the back side of my forefinger. It’s not so arousing per se; rather it’s clandestine! She likes it!

          Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on March 2, 2020.
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            Due to my volunteer service in our church, I dont always get to sit next to my wife. In addition, when I do get to sit with her, I feel like my current walk with God is such that I should focus more on what’s happening in church at that moment than wandering to other things. If our walk gets stronger in the future, I could see coming up with some ideas, but right now our daily life struggles are such that I feel like we need to be absorbing all we can at church of the message and worship.

            Queen bed Answered on March 3, 2020.

            Focusing on your walk with God when it needs extra attention is much more beneficial in the long run than distracting yourself with playfulness. You are building foundation. These things we’re talking about on this thread are just gingerbreading on the porch. Stick with it!!

            on March 5, 2020.
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              I love sitting with my wife in church.  My favorite is putting my arm around her on the back of the seat.  Can’t go wrong with holding hands or a hand on the leg occasionally too.

              There is a limit though, there are some people are just gross about PDA and it goes way too far for a public setting, grabbing at stuff, etc.  That is just tacky.

              Fell out of ... Answered on March 2, 2020.
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                We have used those 5 as well.

                We find it fun to give each other “looks” when we have eye contact. Or press into each others bodies when we are singing or praying. Also, opening our Bible to SoS or Prov. 5:19.

                I like to lick my lips with my tongue discretely as I turn my head toward her.

                Under the stars Answered on March 2, 2020.
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                  We do not have the opportunity to sit with each other in church.  But that does not mean we do not worship together and that is our passion.  The other day in a meeting after church she took my hand and I quickly let it go.  It was assuring but a shock that she would do that there.

                  Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on March 3, 2020.
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                    I’ll put my arm around her. Not exactly arousing, but it is intimate. Also brings us close enough that we can whisper softly to each other. Usually its about the sermon or me telling her I like how her legs are crossed and her foot is hooking the back of my calf.  Bonus if her skirt is riding up over her knee. -which would be completely appropriate.

                    Queen bed Answered on April 5, 2020.
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                      During ‘kiss of peace’, actually giving & receiving a kiss.  Doing also after gospel & homily or sermon.

                      Double bed Answered on March 2, 2020.
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                        Well in our case, an elbow in the side because ahem, one ….is falling asleep is not the way to arousal.

                        On the floor Answered on March 2, 2020.
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