7/10/20 – Today’s Question of the Day
The place? Nothing beats the answer from former member GeorgeB for this type of question. I’m not even going to try.
The reason? Many. For one, there is eventually a strong need for release, though I don’t experience that these days much. Another one is pleasure–my own and my wife’s. Another reason is that it’s a great bonding experience for us and allows us to share something no one else gets. Another reason is that it meets an emotional need of connection/healing. Oh, and lets not forgot that my DW is hot…that too.
Favorite places over the years include the living room floor, the kid’s trampoline on a dark night, the dining room table, kitchen counter, an outdoor, private hot tub/ private pool deck on vacation…
Favorite reasons are it’s pleasurable and fun! I love the closeness and it makes me feel secure in my husband’s love for me and bonds us together.
Reason: I’m the only one who does that for him. I’m the only one who knows what he likes, how he likes it, what his favorite moves are. He’s the only one who has ever put his most intimate parts, the part that represents him as a man, inside me. I feel wanted and loved and treasured and like we are as close as two people can get and as our bodies almost occupy the same space, somehow out souls DO. It’s the mystical reminder that we have become ONE, and I love being one with this man I love so much.
Place: Almost anywhere; body shape and a few physical limitations do require certain awareness of comfort.
Reason: To connect with my with my wife physically and emotionally, building the intimate bonds of love between us.
Place: Anywhere we can! Mostly our bed, but we’ve found many other places to enjoy each other. To steal a line from Along Came Polly, we are “sexually active in the community.” But always discreet 😉