A gift for all the husbands here

    So a handout I was given at my Gyn office is entitled “Practical Measures for Vaginal Hygiene” and there’s an “avoid” column and a “substitute” column. Without going through the whole list, the top several to Avoid are:  pantyhose, synthetic underwear, and tight fitting jeans or other tight pants. Certain choices from the Substitute column add up to the formula for good vaginal health being the following:

    Thigh high stockings with garter belts, no underwear, and dresses.

    So fellas, those of you who have been wanting your wives to wear that particular combination, now you can tell them it’s not just sexy, it’s healthy for the lady bits.

    And that’s my good deed for the men of TMB for the year. 😀

    edited for typo

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      @OWM said: “Duchess, you’re not just making this up are you?”

      Her statement seems to agree with the next-to-last rule in this article: 8 Rules for a Healthy Vagina.

      Logical conclusion is that my DW should go commando and wear dresses…why would I argue with that? 😉

      -Scott

      On the floor Answered on February 19, 2020.
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        I think my wife read a list similar to that once.  Although she has had problems in that area, she couldn’t get around the no underwear one, not even sleeping without panties. I would absolutely love it if she wore a garter and hose, that is very sexy to me.

        Fell out of ... Answered on February 19, 2020.
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          LOVE IT! Bought my wife some lingerie for the first time in marriage that I wanted to see her in…and two of the sets involved garter & thigh highs. WOW!!!

          I still enjoy seeing her in good jeans and a t-shirt or sweater in the Fall but I’m all for her going commando, especially at night!!! 😀

          On the floor Answered on February 19, 2020.
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            All I saw was no underwear…LOL.  That’s enough for me!

            Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on February 19, 2020.
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              Thanks for sharing that. I have often wondered about DW’s vaginal health. Seems to me that 24/7 coverage of her bits would be stuffy and suffocating. And unhealthy.

              Duchess, you’re not just making this up are you?

              Under the stars Answered on February 19, 2020.

              I solemnly promise I am not making it up! There are other much less interesting recommendations, like drink water instead of cola, tea, coffee, alcohol, etc.; wash with fingers and pat dry, no rubbing instead of using washcloths; and unscented laundry stuff and double rinses instead of scented fabric softener. It just tickled me that they recommended stockings and garters instead of pantyhose and (either cotton or) NO underwear instead of synthetic underwear. Made me wonder if a male doctor with a secret wish wrote the list! 😉

              on February 19, 2020.

              Ok. I’ll believe you!

              So, which of the recommendations are you adopting?

              on February 19, 2020.

              Hubby can report if he chooses. 😉

              on February 20, 2020.
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                If my wife went around commando in a skirt we’d be arrested because i’d be unable to resist just grabbing her and bending her over the nearest object in the grocery store, Target, sidewalk, hood of the car… 😜

                Hammock Answered on February 19, 2020.
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                  Thank you Duchess!

                  Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on February 19, 2020.
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                    Yeah…. fat chance at this house….

                    King bed Answered on February 20, 2020.

                    I’m truly sorry. I can feel the bitterness welling up in your responses and wish with all my heart that I had the ability to magically “poof!” your wife into having an insatiable hunger for sex with you. I know you must wonder why God doesn’t “just fix it” or “just change her”, because we both know he could. Just remember that he knows more than we do and there must be something good that will come from this struggle. Focus on him and maybe he will surprise you with a blossoming interest in sex for your wife while you aren’t looking. Blessings.

                    on February 20, 2020.

                    Thanks, I appreciate the sentiment D.
                    Sex is not terrible for us really. My DW is somewhat….well, moderately inhibited, true. And she’d never go commando, even at home if we were alone. I do wish she would loosen up. But it’s not bad overall.

                    …until I read too much around here…  🙂

                    on February 20, 2020.
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                      I’m in the same boat.  After our son was born, she is a little looser so just a sneeze she is worried about a little dribble, so she is not venturing there anytime soon.  (Any suggestions in that department?) Still trying her to go without.  Even at night she wears something.  It hinders a bit of midnight fondling.  Maybe I should show her the report!!!

                      Hammock Answered on March 31, 2020.
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                        @Happily married,

                        “(Any suggestions in that department?)”

                        This is kind of pricey, but it seems to have good reviews, but you could check out this K-fit.  They also have an attachment for me for them to do kegels.  We have been trying it out, my husband has actually been more faithful in the use, but we both have noticed differences in our pelvic floor muscles.

                         

                        Under the stars Answered on March 31, 2020.

                        That should be “an attachment for MEN” NOT “an attachment for me” 😳 LOL

                        I will try to remember to edit that when I get back on my laptop.

                        on March 31, 2020.

                        Thanks for the tip SC.  I’ll have to look into it.   Also thinking about Ben-Wa balls for Kegel Exercises to strengthen the muscles.  She tried them about 15 years ago and didn’t stay in for her.  She may be willing to try again.  I’ll look up the k-fit.  Appreciate the feedback.

                        on April 1, 2020.
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