After five years, I had my first O

    My DH and I have been married for almost 5 years. I did not know what an O was. I never heard of it until I married DH. DH has tried and tried to get me to O. I told him it wasn’t important or a big deal. God will help him give me an O if that’s what God want. Sex feels so good already that I can’t imagine it being any better. DH was just so desperate and determined to make me O. We read books recommend here and Christian blogs. I still didn’t O. DH tried for five years. Before making love sometimes we would pray. DH would pray for God to give me an O. Well, I’m finally here to tell you God and DH gave me an O over the weekend but it scared me at first. 

    I honestly can’t describe the feeling. I never felt that before so it scared me. I just felt things tingle and felt hot. Then suddenly it just happened randomly and I got scared but it felt so good. I didn’t know my body would just randomly do this. I started crying and DH asked what was wrong. I told him what just happened and he said I might’ve O. I honestly couldn’t believe that was an O. It was just so scary and random but felt so good. Like I couldn’t believe how good it felt. DH wanted to try again and I agreed. So we tried again but it didn’t work. Yesterday we said a prayer before making love. DH tried to do what he did before to get me to O. He told me I needed to relax and not be scared. That God wanted this to happen. He created O’s. So I just relaxed and enjoyed what DH was doing. Well, I had that same feeling as before. That hot and tingle feeling I was starting to get scared but reminded myself to relax. Suddenly, it happened and I couldn’t control anything. My body did things it didn’t usually do and I felt so much pleasure all over. Like I couldn’t believe it. It was just too good. I even cried a bit. DH was so happy and so was I because he really wanted me to O. I honestly can’t believe I had an O. Thanks to this forum and members here, I had my very first O after five years. So thank you. I honestly didn’t think an O was important or felt better but I was so wrong. I’m grateful for this forum, my husband, and God. I still can’t believe I had an O. 

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      Fantastic!! It’s great that TMB has been a wonderful help to you. That’s what its Christ-centered marriage bed mission is all about!

      Now, relax and keep enjoying the journey with your DH!

      On the floor Answered on September 30, 2019.
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        Congrats! How wonderful is that! Thanks for sharing! I’m sure this will be an encouragement to many couples!

        Under the stars Answered on October 1, 2019.
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          That is fantastic! Very happy for you two. God is very good!

          Fell out of ... Answered on September 30, 2019.

          Thank you so much. I can’t share this anywhere else but here. I feel different right now too.

          on September 30, 2019.
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            Ditto to what Angler said!   That is wonderful news and I rejoice with you!

            Under the stars Answered on September 30, 2019.

            Thank you

            on September 30, 2019.
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              That is awesome! I think we were married 5 years before my wife started having orgasms with any kind of regularity. Then they were all the time!

              Hammock Answered on September 30, 2019.

              I only had two so far but I only count one because I got the full feeling of it. DH thought I would have one in a few months but it took five years. He tried and tried but now it happened. It was so worth it and worth it to wait. It might be all the time or it might be sometimes but that’s ok. God is in control and DH and God gave me an extra gift.

              on September 30, 2019.
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                Praise God!  You learned what I have been sharing with my wife…”Relax and let go!”  Relaxation is power!

                On the floor Answered on September 30, 2019.

                Yes. I was so scared until I relaxed. I use to be tense but had to relax and it happened. I’m thankful to God and DH for this extra gift. Now I know to just relax and let go.

                on September 30, 2019.
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                  This site is a wealth of information, we’ve been married 35 years and and we are still learning, thanks to TMB. Happy you felt comfortable to share on this site.

                  Twin bed Answered on September 30, 2019.
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                    So happy for you both! Thank you for sharing your joy!

                    Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on September 30, 2019.
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                      So very happy for you both. Make them the first of so many more!

                      Fell out of ... Answered on September 30, 2019.
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                        Congratulations! So happy for you and your DH,

                        California King Answered on October 1, 2019.
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