Any couples have a ‘sex battle’?

    Every so often when we are having sex, my wife says in her language, “Let’s battle”.  She tries to squeeze me.  I flex the muscles to ‘lift up’ my penis.  I’ve never been ever to win by slinging her across the world and she’s never been able to squeeze me so hard I beg for mercy.  Theoretically, I suspect it’s more likely a woman could train herself to do that.

    This is just a silly thing we do when she gets in the mood for it.  Has anyone else done anything like that.

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      We’ve tried something similar. A “sex chase” game if you will.  Basically after foreplay when DW is aroused enough for intercourse she “runs away” and its my job to “catch her”.  Once she is “caught” I lovingly but forcefully pull her into position and take her hard and fast from behind.

      In practice things are a bit awkward.  Running around with an erect penis isn’t the easiest thing in the world, bodies don’t line up as effortlessly in real life vs. fantasy, thrill of the chase is reduced living in a small apartment, etc. Still it was fun and with practice I think we could make it even more enjoyable.

      On the floor Answered on April 16, 2019.
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        We have “wrestling” sex sometimes similar to SLS except we are not chasing/running around our house.  It’s usually just in bed, dh tries to take me and I try to keep him from being able to.  (lots of lube is essential).  I usually end up so turned on that I don’t want to hold him off anymore and I give in!

        On the floor Answered on April 17, 2019.
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          I train jiu-jitsu so from time to time I’ll “lock her up” but it leads to hot sex, lol

          Queen bed Answered on April 17, 2019.
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            We’ve done a sock war game. Each one wears socks and nothing else then the battle is try to remove the others socks first. You can do different things like do it blindfolded or only one hand but you can distract by any means necessary! I’d like to wrestle my wife though, not sure how to make it fair. Anyone have suggestions or ways to make it a “happy ending” for both?

            King bed Answered on April 18, 2019.

            “I’d like to wrestle my wife though, not sure how to make it fair.”  I can’t speak for your wife, but for me the unfairness is what would make it exciting.  Women are attracted to masculine strength, and what better display of strength than a demonstration that he could take you by force if he wasn’t such a gentleman….

            on April 18, 2019.
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              ‘Wrestling’ is okay if it is just playing.  It’s not something my wife and I are into.  But if you hurt each other or try to, that’s not cool, of course.

              Fell out of ... Answered on April 25, 2019.
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                Hmmm.  We haven’t done this in a while.  Past due.  We sometimes play where she fights like mad and I have to overpower her.  I usually use some form of bondage to hold her after I get control.  I might force her to orgasm as she fights or just take her.  This takes a tremendous amount of energy so not something we do too often.  Great fun for both if she is into it.  It could easily be a trigger for many women so approach with care.

                Double bed Answered on July 22, 2019.
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