Anyone keeping records / stats of sex activity?

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    Does anyone keep records / stats of your sex activity: time, number of orgasms, positions etc?

    Am I the only one?

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      I did one full year and we had sex less than I thought even, full PIV sex in one year, 22 times. Zero oral sex, that one was easy to keep up with!

      Queen bed Answered on September 9, 2019.
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        OWM, who to share it with.? TMB,of course. One of the worst things to happen to sex is the Internet, one of the best things to happen to sex is  the Internet.     at no other place or time in history has it been so easy for Christians to ligitamately share and compare their sexual experiences and learn from others.

        Cot Answered on September 9, 2019.
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          @69greyshades:

          That is quite a list.  I noticed it was all performance-based.  There are no items related to relationship satisfaction and emotional connection.  When a husband gets very focused on the logistics and performance aspect of sex, it can take a huge toll on a woman’s enjoyment of the sexual experience.  Especially  if she knows he is keeping statistics!  I hope that you at least don’t share this with her.  Knowing a partner is keeping statistics would be a major turn-off.

          OTOH, maybe you are tuned in to the relationship aspects of sex, but they’re just harder to quantify.  If that’s the case, why not add, on a scale of 1-10, how good was the emotional connection for you, and how good was it for her?  And move this item to the top of your list.

           

           

           

           

          Fell out of ... Answered on September 9, 2019.
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            I started keeping track this year, our 8th year of marriage. After having a couple tough years when we ML less than 10x a year, I had to start keeping count. BJs are really easy for me track as DW has fully taken them off the table for the past couple years and for the foreseeable future.

            But I can report that we are working together on increasing frequency and have celebrated some recent victories! First time ML in consecutive 2 weeks since our honeymoon. 🙂

            Double bed Answered on September 10, 2019.
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              Yes, my wife does. She has kept a diary since she was 15 and she records what we do in bed. As a result, she knows when the children were conceived.

              Twin bed Answered on September 10, 2019.
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                Re: @Angler: I do the same… similar stats since 7 years ago, for each session…

                RE: @ShadowSpirit , honestly I can say that while ML, my mind is absolutely not thinking about the statistics, so I give my all to my wife during love making. The satisfaction and emotional area in our relationship is very good. When we ML, I always think first about loving and satisfying her, and I see she is happy, emotionally and physically, very satisfied. 🙂

                Cot Answered on September 14, 2019.
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                  I did this about 5 years back but now we have sex most nights so I find no need to track it.

                  Queen bed Answered on September 14, 2019.
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