Anyone keeping records / stats of sex activity?

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    Does anyone keep records / stats of your sex activity: time, number of orgasms, positions etc?

    Am I the only one?

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      You are not the only one. I have done it off and on in the past 6+ years. I believe my husband has started doing it this past year or so. From what he says, part of it is to figure out what works for me and what doesn’t.

      Under the stars Answered on September 6, 2019.
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        We put a quarter in a jar every time- it’s a great way to save up some bonus money!

        Queen bed Answered on September 6, 2019.

        What a great idea! I’m going to suggest this to DW. Only more per session, and use the proceeds for date nights.

        on September 7, 2019.
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          I’ve become OCD about keeping records of our love sessions:

          – AVERAGE duration of a love session (hh:mm)
          – TOTAL time of love making (hh:mm) (all time accumulated)
          – TOTAL number of love sessions (all time accumulated)
          – OralSex on woman: AVERAGE time per love session (minutes)
          – OralSex on woman: TOTAL time (hh:mm) (all time accumulated)
          – Woman’s Orgasms: by OralSex – AVERAGE # per love session”
          – Woman’s Orgasms: by OralSex – TOTAL # (all time accumulated)
          – Woman’s Orgasms: by vaginal penetration – AVERAGE # per love session
          – Woman’s Orgasms: by vaginal penetration – TOTAL # (all time accumulated)
          – Woman’s Orgasms: by vaginal penetration + Oral Sex – AVERAGE # per love session
          – Woman’s Orgasms: by vaginal penetration + Oral Sex – TOTAL # (all time accumulated)
          – OralSex on man: AVERAGE time per love session: (minutes)
          – Man’s Orgasms: AVERAGE # per love session
          – Man’s Orgasms: TOTAL #
          – Positions in every love session

           

          stats have slowed down in the last couple of years 🙁

          Cot Answered on September 6, 2019.
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            I keep track of when we have sex but not the details. The only detail is if my husband finishes inside me or not. Just in case I get pregnant I know when.

            Queen bed Answered on September 6, 2019.
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              I have off and on again as well. Depends how busy I get.

              Hammock Answered on September 6, 2019.
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                I did a number of years ago when  DW was in gate-keeping mode. It was to counter her “optimistic” claims on our frequency with specific stats. . Fortunately, I don’t need it for that purpose anymore so I stopped.  Now if we can just get the the house to ourselves more often, we can more easily make up for the “years that the locust has eaten.”

                Twin bed Answered on September 6, 2019.
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                  I did for some time, but my DW found out one night and got very upset about it. So I stopped.

                  Twin bed Answered on September 7, 2019.
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                    I used to keep track, but no longer do. Like who is there that I can share stats with anyway?

                    But, I do track frequency in my mind without recording it.

                    Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on September 8, 2019.
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                      I kept track during the infertility years, morning basal body temp and every time we had sexual activity that could result in pregnancy, which I guess was every time because when trying for a baby you don’t waste sperm. 😉

                      Right now I can give you one stat:  Since late June–0 PIV. But…NOT FOR LONG! 😀

                      On the floor Answered on September 8, 2019.
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                        I did one full year and we had sex less than I thought even, full PIV sex in one year, 22 times. Zero oral sex, that one was easy to keep up with!

                        Queen bed Answered on September 9, 2019.
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