Are there Seniors here? How old? Are you still sexually engaged, how often? Any problems?


    We are technically Seniors.  Well, I guess we have been for some five years based on the available discount at Wendy’s.  We are sexually active, yes indeed at 2 to 3 times a week and as much as 4.  Emotions seem to sway us more than they used to.  Mostly our married kid’s spouses.  But, there are no physical problems other than a little more weight.  Well, getting down on the ground.  Everything still works the way it used to but with better intent, process and results.

    Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on May 4, 2019 in Senior Sex.
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      73 & 72 and definitely still active after 54 years together.  Normal for us is 2-3 times per week, more if we’re on vacation and away from the constraints of scheduled meetings and activities.  I’m on slidenafil , and have been for several years, but other than that, we’re still good to go.  Ms RandB has lost over 50 lbs in the last year and is just about back to her teenage weight which makes things a lot better for both of us.

      Queen bed Answered on May 6, 2019.
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        My DW is 60 and I’m 59. We are now empty nesters after raising 6 kids. We have had a good sex life all our marriage.  Sex was 2 – 3 times per week.  However, the last couple of years it is so much better.  We have sex 5 – 7 times per week.  Sometime we have sex 2 times a day.  We have spiced up our  sex life and we are madly in love.  Her drive has gone from medium to high. My drive was always high.  We have learned to play longer and enjoy the foreplay. Her O’s are much more intense and mine a about the same unless she edges me and when the O finally comes it’s glorious. I would not want to go back I to the early years even though they were good.  You see, now sex is GREAT!

        Queen bed Answered on June 3, 2019.
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          We’re both 73 and have sex about once a month although we make love every night.   We are  caregivers for her mother and having her down the hall and us being exausted all the time as nailed out sex life.   But before we go to sleep we have a wonderful time of intimacy.




          Double bed Answered on June 14, 2019.
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            We are both 65 and ML 3-4 times per week since I retired in April… up from 1-2 before retirement.  We are both in good health, exercise regularly and are trim but  DW has had back problems (2 surgeries) which limit her flexibility a bit and sometimes “locks up” on her after strenuous yard work, etc.   The hardness of my erections varies (less than more) and I have mentioned starting on Viagra or Cialis which she fears will be the end of my ability to have a “natural” erection.   As I’ve noted before, she is almost always “available” and even initiates ML sometimes but, at her insistence, our LM is very “vanilla” with no OS of any variety.

            Fell out of ... Answered on June 14, 2019.
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              We’re in our mid 50’s and I’d say that our sex life is the best it’s ever been. The two children have left the nest, so we’ve more time to spend in bed on the mornings we’re not working.
              Two or three times a week with regular OS from DW. We’re both pretty happy that we can still love and enjoy each other.

              Double bed Answered on September 18, 2019.
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                I am 58 and DH is 61.  Unfortunately we’re down to about once a week or less, due to DH’s plumbing problems (mostly BPH) and declining interest in sex coupled with increasing interest in Netflix and Amazon Prime on TV.   🙄  When we do have sex though, it’s great.  I’ve had two knee replacement surgeries in the past two years, so I can’t do anything that involves kneeling anymore.  Fortunately DH had decided even before then that he prefers me on my back at the edge of the bed and him standing for PIV or PIA,  so that works well.   Foreplay is in a head to toe position, with me on my back with a leg draped over him, and him turned a bit sideways, so he can rest his head on my thigh while he’s exploring.   Very comfortable for us both.

                Hammock Answered on May 4, 2019.
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                  We are 70 and 68.  Still active, wife less so, especially since she broke two bones in her ankle.  Cast comes off in a week and I should be able to get her engaged again.

                  Double bed Answered on May 4, 2019.

                  chasing her should be easy.

                  on June 3, 2020.
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                    I will be 58 this year (June) and DW is 54. (Maybe not quite seniors, but close). We have sex 1 – 2 times a week. One time is scheduled (Saturday morning), and the other time ‘floats’ depending on what is happening that week. We don’t have any problems aside from my wife who has limited flexibility. This means we normally only have PIV in missionary position.

                    On the floor Answered on May 5, 2019.
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                      56 and 53. Typically enjoy intimacy every otherday. We schedule “advanced dining” on the weekends. I’m an extreme morning person she prefers night and she is LD so you can guess when the 99.999% of the action takes place

                      Cot Answered on May 5, 2019.
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                        Late 50’s, we used to have sex about once a week, that is about all the wife could tolerate. After menopause, we are down to about once a month a little less. Both in good health.

                        On the floor Answered on May 6, 2019.
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