Awakening?

    Have any of the couples experienced a sexual awakening with your spouse lately & if so what prompted it? Recently we moved our bedroom downstairs & got more space away from our son. Having more privacy & freedom caused us to have a sexual awakening. After 20 years married we are like newlyweds again! We call our bedroom the “Love nest” now.

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      I think we may be in the initial stages of a new phase of our sex life.

      We are empty nesters, in a new phase of life and as a part of that we have both set a weight loss goal for ourselves.  DW does not talk much about sex, bu in conversation several weeks ago I was shocked to her hear volunteer that the number ONE reason she wants to lose her weight is to be able to up her game in the marriage bed !

      I asked for details but she would not elaborate, but I’m hopeful !!!!

      Queen bed Answered on January 17, 2020.
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        DW had an awakening a few years ago. The sex was great early in our marriage, but things went south for many years. I think getting off the pill was a big factor (mainly to keep endometriosis at bay (I’ve had a V) until a blood clot…) along with an overall improvement in our marriage at around the 30 yr mark. Mostly I consider the overall and specific improvements an answer to consistent years of prayer. Frequency is up, DW is willing try new things to include her own “good ideas.”  We both are looking forward to an empty nest! We are blessed!

        Double bed Answered on January 17, 2020.
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          Earl,

          Sounds as if we are at about the same stage in life.  Best of everything to you and your DW as you move forward in life and your relationship.  We are just beginning to get into the empty nest stage are beginning to experience some real freedom.

           

          Queen bed Answered on January 17, 2020.
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            Thanks everyone for your answers. Its good to know as married couples we can work toward mutual goals & make our marriage bed better even if we have been married for several years.

            Twin bed Answered on January 17, 2020.
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              Going to a marriage conference helped us, including having some books to read together.  My wife is working through some of her own issues but slowly coming out of her shell.  But definitely the conference and reading together.

              Queen bed Answered on March 10, 2020.
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