BDSM discussion

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    I would like to have a civil, orderly discussion that explores the morals of Dominace and Submission. First, some preliminary questions:

    Is BDSM a proper grouping? Or are things that are fundamentally different grouped under this banner?

     

    What is the basis on enjoyment in D and S?  Roller coasters are fun because of the sense of danger and unusual sensations of motion. Why is D/S fun?

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      There are countless sexual methods that fall under the BDSM umbrella  – really too many to list. As for the dom/sub question, some people like being dominant and others like to be submissive; sometimes these roles can be reversed for sexual play within the marital bed. Again, it just requires communication and trust.

      Queen bed Answered on April 19, 2019.
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        Of course, biblically.

        Queen bed Answered on April 10, 2019.
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          Tracker – not sure I follow your answers.

          Queen bed Answered on April 10, 2019.
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            I guess no one wants to interact, at least with the way I opened…

            Queen bed Answered on April 15, 2019.
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              My wife and I enjoy BDSM, mostly where I am the dom and she is the sub and I take control. It does require communication, but when done right, it can be very sexually satisfying.

              Queen bed Answered on April 15, 2019.
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                Care to answer my questions?

                Queen bed Answered on April 19, 2019.
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                  I think there are definitely different levels of BDSM. Some couples, like us, just enjoy the ‘dirty talk’ aspect of it . . . The fantasy of talking about him ‘taking’ me against my will or being rough. The other end of the spectrum seems really extreme, with all the props like ball gags, masks, etc. that I would be very uncomfortable with.

                  i think the enjoyment, at least for me, is more of the fantasy of being someone else (woman in the 1800’s who has little control) than anything else.

                  Does that answer any of your questions?

                  On the floor Answered on April 19, 2019.
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                    What I hear you two saying is that Bondage, Dominance, Sadism, and Masochism are properly joined as a group and have a shared fun element based on permission to pretend to break rules or do or experience sinful things. Is that right?

                    Queen bed Answered on April 20, 2019.
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                      My wife and I enjoy all aspects of the “B” “D” “S” and “M” elements during sex, certainly not all the time, but occasionally.

                      Queen bed Answered on May 8, 2019.
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                        I think the words are ugly words personally when one really thinks about them.  We enjoy spanking but it is not dominant or bondage. Certainly not masochism. Who enjoys pain? When it is sexual too soft is not enough and too hard puts sex out of the window.  We talk about it.  As for sadism which means enjoying others pain? Horrific. Enough said.

                        Double bed Answered 5 days ago.
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