Butt plugs

    I am tentatively exploring these, don’t know how receptive husband will feel about me using it although up until now he’s loved everything i’ve introduced since being on TMB: thigh high stockings, a vibrator, nipple clamps (i’ve just ordered nipple suction pumps, he doesn’t know but he will on Saturday, LOL) so it’s something i’m carefully considering.

    i think the chances are he will enjoy me using them (don’t know if i will or not!) but i would like to get him one specifically designed to massage the prostate (curved butt plug).  I highly doubt he will do it but i would like to hear from husbands who have used them and their experience, especially since if they massage the prostate, how does that feel? Does it add to the intensity of orgasm?

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      My husband uses one on occasion. He says it feels intense and really good. He said, “it makes the orgasms/ejaculations very intense and much more pleasurable.” He did say he had one that hurt, but it was a *rubber* one that also connects to the shaft and testicles, so you may want to stay away from one like that. (A similar metal one worked well.)

      Under the stars Answered on December 26, 2019.
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        The Aneros prostate massager is incredibly pleasurable. It’s design hits the right spot(s) any generates powerful orgasms for me. Purchase a butt plug that is designed to massage the prostate. It should be anatomically correct in length and curvature. It should be flexible and not too hard.

        Under the stars Answered on December 26, 2019.

        Thank you Oldbear, i really hope my husband agrees to that!

        on December 27, 2019.
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          We got up the courage to order one that looked like a nice, tame, simple first attempt, that wasn’t too expensive and when it came it was so big it was frightening. We got a refund and disposed of it. (Very thankful those things are not returnable!) Have not gotten the courage to try again.

          Under the stars Answered on December 30, 2019.

          Just finding this post/question and wanted to add that you can buy different sized plugs to start with, small for beginners and so on.  Don’t scrub the idea.  Like any toy it takes some experimenting to find the right fit.

          on March 21, 2020.
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            I’m intrigued at this idea. I’m curious what your DH reaction is.

            Queen bed Answered on December 27, 2019.
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              I use an Aneros occasionally for prostate massage purposes (for how it feels + health benefits) separate from intercourse.  I tried using it during PIV and it did add to the intensity, but I somehow found it “distracting” for lack of a better word. I think it is in the “your mileage may vary” category; definitely worth a try, but it may not be value-added for all.

              DH should be trilled that you are looking this! I know I would have been. 

              Queen bed Answered on December 27, 2019.

              He had the typical negative reaction at first but was intrigued at the benefit of the prostate and intense O’s.  We are at a sexual exploration time in our marriage and so far he has been very receptive. I don’t know what he’s going to think of the nipple clips i just got in the mail but i imagine he will be “turned on” by them. All of this is extremely new in our marriage bed, it was “vanilla” for years.

              He did say something to me that was eye opening that i guess all men desire, i asked him if something turned him on and he said he just loves seeing ME turned on.

              on December 27, 2019.
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                I tried an Aneros a few times and it just wasn’t for me. Didn’t seem to do much for me. DW has a few plugs she sometimes uses and enjoys and I love it when she does. I wish she’d use them every time or most anyway. I find them sexy, especially the pink gem plug. It’s cute and hot. And they feel good to me too.

                California King Answered on December 28, 2019.
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                  My son once told me his Ex-wife wore them all the time. He said they had a big argument over one actually, she had one custom made at a shop that cost quite a bit and they didn’t have that much money to spend. He said she wore hers all the time.

                  On the floor Answered on December 29, 2019.
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                    @Duchess, if you guys are looking for something to use during sex (vs wearing under clothes and around), anal beads are a great start. They start with beads smaller than a lady’s pinky and graduate up to larger. That gives you the opportunity to insert it only as far as you are comfortable. It can be used for him or her. And if it is used on her, he gets a benefit too because he can feel them through the vaginal wall during PIV.

                    eta:  here’s what I am talking about and what we have used (different color):  Anal Beads

                    Under the stars Answered on December 30, 2019.
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                      My wife has a butt plug which I use on her from time to time, but we’ve never used it on me. She says the additional “plug” adds to the intensity of her orgasms from PIV sex.

                      Double bed Answered on January 6, 2020.
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                        We recently did PIV with DW having a vibrating plug inserted for the first time. We both enjoyed it. She has only Oed a few times during PIV but came closer with the plug in than she has in a long time.  I could feel the vibrations too and my view was wonderful.  Looking forward to trying it again and hopefully moving on to PIA as DW becomes more comfortable with something inserted there!

                        Queen bed Answered on January 18, 2020.
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