I am tentatively exploring these, don’t know how receptive husband will feel about me using it although up until now he’s loved everything i’ve introduced since being on TMB: thigh high stockings, a vibrator, nipple clamps (i’ve just ordered nipple suction pumps, he doesn’t know but he will on Saturday, LOL) so it’s something i’m carefully considering.
i think the chances are he will enjoy me using them (don’t know if i will or not!) but i would like to get him one specifically designed to massage the prostate (curved butt plug). I highly doubt he will do it but i would like to hear from husbands who have used them and their experience, especially since if they massage the prostate, how does that feel? Does it add to the intensity of orgasm?
My husband uses one on occasion. He says it feels intense and really good. He said, “it makes the orgasms/ejaculations very intense and much more pleasurable.” He did say he had one that hurt, but it was a *rubber* one that also connects to the shaft and testicles, so you may want to stay away from one like that. (A similar metal one worked well.)
The Aneros prostate massager is incredibly pleasurable. It’s design hits the right spot(s) any generates powerful orgasms for me. Purchase a butt plug that is designed to massage the prostate. It should be anatomically correct in length and curvature. It should be flexible and not too hard.
I use an Aneros occasionally for prostate massage purposes (for how it feels + health benefits) separate from intercourse. I tried using it during PIV and it did add to the intensity, but I somehow found it “distracting” for lack of a better word. I think it is in the “your mileage may vary” category; definitely worth a try, but it may not be value-added for all.
DH should be trilled that you are looking this! I know I would have been.
I tried an Aneros a few times and it just wasn’t for me. Didn’t seem to do much for me. DW has a few plugs she sometimes uses and enjoys and I love it when she does. I wish she’d use them every time or most anyway. I find them sexy, especially the pink gem plug. It’s cute and hot. And they feel good to me too.
My son once told me his Ex-wife wore them all the time. He said they had a big argument over one actually, she had one custom made at a shop that cost quite a bit and they didn’t have that much money to spend. He said she wore hers all the time.
We got up the courage to order one that looked like a nice, tame, simple first attempt, that wasn’t too expensive and when it came it was so big it was frightening. We got a refund and disposed of it. (Very thankful those things are not returnable!) Have not gotten the courage to try again.
@Duchess, if you guys are looking for something to use during sex (vs wearing under clothes and around), anal beads are a great start. They start with beads smaller than a lady’s pinky and graduate up to larger. That gives you the opportunity to insert it only as far as you are comfortable. It can be used for him or her. And if it is used on her, he gets a benefit too because he can feel them through the vaginal wall during PIV.
eta: here’s what I am talking about and what we have used (different color): Anal Beads
We recently did PIV with DW having a vibrating plug inserted for the first time. We both enjoyed it. She has only Oed a few times during PIV but came closer with the plug in than she has in a long time. I could feel the vibrations too and my view was wonderful. Looking forward to trying it again and hopefully moving on to PIA as DW becomes more comfortable with something inserted there!