Do you have to be hornier for a handjob than for PIV?

    I never thought much about this in my 20’s and 30’s, probably because I got pretty horny every day.  But as I get older, while I crave PIV with my wife and the connection, it seems like I have to skip a few days of sex before I start thinking a handjob would be really nice.  My wife can give some intense sensations in a handjob, and there is a lot of control.

    Is anyone else like this?

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      When she gives me the option, I’ll take a HJ about 1/2 the time (PIV the other half), but its a HJ hybrid. Don’t know how many people think in these terms, but a hand job doesn’t have to be just that. Say she isn’t in the mood for me inside. Well, it doesn’t mean we can’t feel close. For me, I like when she wears nylons. She’ll wear them and we’ll lay side by side facing each other.  While she’s giving me a HJ, I’m caressing her, she’s stroking her legs and feet against mine, and her knee is sliding gently into my groin. Point is, its tailored to what I like. I’d describe it as a combo of playing footsie, leg-job, and handjob. 3 things I love. The whole thing is amazing and never leaves me wanting for more – until I recover and think how hot it was!

      Queen bed Answered on September 14, 2019.
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