Do you talk about your sex life with other people?
Not just if you are having it, etc but sharing details or tips from particularly memorable sessions.
About 5 or 6 times in the past week.
Seriously, I’m just kidding! Rarely. When the topic of sex or sexuality comes up, I’m careful not to reveal things about our sex life. I think we can talk about sex in God-honoring ways without getting into the specifics of ones own sex life.
Only online, not face to face.
I wanted to add, even online I limit details, and the purpose behind it makes a difference on what I will share. I am more open if the purpose is to help another or to receive help. I don’t share details just for the thrill of it (mine or others.)
I think I’ve talked about it twice in 20 years of marriage, and only general statements. I don’t even really share specifics on here. The way I see it, my husband is the only one on the planet with whom I get to share that side of myself. I like it that way.
“I know that my wife and her super close friends have had pretty detailed discussions and even gripe sessions about their sex lives.”
Wow, can you be more specific about that? For instance, does your DW participate and does she talk about you and the positions you do, etc? What do they gripe about?