Do you know what your partner likes in bed?
Do you know what your partner likes in bed? Percentage of us that do or do not is not easily found on the web but everyone is happy as heck to tell us what the typical mate wants and or desires? (1) But specific question is when was something new engaged in and or activity found out that caused one to say “oh my that is what they were referring to had no idea we could feel this way”? All undefiled right? Share if possible.
I know many different things my husband loves, because I pay close attention to his reactions. When his breath quickens or he gives off other little signs, I explore further along those lines. It’s kind of like the children’s game “hot and cold.” There was a lot of experimentation on my part. I have quite a large repertoire of things I know he really really loves, because he was frequently a long time in coming and I wanted to hurry things along. Maybe not the greatest backstory you were looking for, but the end result of the process still speaks to your question.
I can’t say that I have experienced an “Oh my, that is what they were referring to. I had no idea we could feel this way.” kind of moment….. well, except for a “honeymoon” period, for the first time ever, 18+ years in the marriage. But that was more about connection, not actual sex acts.
What I have experienced, on more than one occasion, is finding and doing something we like, and then coming across something and realizing it has a “name”, for example, the A-spot/ “cul de sac” orgasm, and edging.
We have also experienced, more than once, where we have tried something one of us had fantasized about, and realizing that it does not live up to expectations.
About 3 years ago into our now 21 years of marriage, we were in the shower and i brought her to the most intense O she’d ever had. She says it was the hot water running, the steam etc…There’s always room for growth, and I don’t think we’ll always find it on the web. Just touch each other and keep trying new things. Our water bill have gone through the roof in the past three years, but it’s worth it!!