Does anyone have experience with nipple clamps/suckers?
So i bought “suckers” and clamps (alligator i guess, adjustable) and still figuring out everything. I understand how they add to the pain/pleasure experience (we’re not into fetish or pain) but what i don’t understand is…they are supposed to enhance pleasure, increase sensitivity and enlarge the nipple (suckers) but i keep hearing the real pleasure is when you have them on for a time and then take them off is where you get the sensitivity and rush of pleasure.
My H is very into nipple play, he starts off with using his mouth so i cannot imagine doing that with clamps on…although he likes the look of them and i would like the sensation when he’s involved in foreplay so…should i put them on for a time before sexual activity? i guess i just don’t get it…
I think the suckers are more for him to use on you and have fun with. Things like clamps or nipple jewelry are hard to wear ahead of time unless you are wearing something really bulky. They seem best to put on right before you begin foreplay.
DW’s nipples like attention and she recently bought some suckers thinking they could mimic the attention I give them. Keep the good feelings going when our position wouldn’t allow me to do that directly. First time we used them, it was painful and we quickly took them off. Don’t know if it was applying too much suction initially or that she happened to be more sensitive than usual that night, but we haven’t used them since. Suggest that you try them out on yourself and see what does/doesn’t work before handing over to DH! I’ll have to encorage DW to do the same! Will be happy to hear any lessons-learned that might be generally applicable.