DW finishing HJ
Question for other DW’s (but DH’s are encouraged to answer too) … when giving DH a hand job (and not a quickie- but passionate and/or erotic play time), as he is reaching PONR …. do you slow down hand speed, maintain same speed or speed up to facilitate his O and ejaculation?
And also during that sequence of events, does your grip loosen, stay same or tighten?
Lastly, once he is done, do you continue your handy work to induce some past-O tease/torture or not ?.
Interestingly, the graph shows that the older the age, the more that stimulation is ok/welcomed after an orgasm. This makes sense (true for me) since my orgasm isn’t as strong as in my younger years, my erection is less hard, and the nerve endings less sensitive (spent). Studies have shown that as men age, their overall penile sensitive lessens.
However, contrary to male refractory research (older men take longer before they are ready and able to go again) there have been times that I can have a 2nd orgasm within minutes. Mrs. Oldbear or I can continue to play around without any discomfort and it can lead to more pleasure.
My theory is that my 1st O is not as intense as in my younger days, so there remains a little fire power. Any other men find that they can re-generate fairly easily as they’ve aged?
I’m with “Hungry” on this. That post-orgasm stimulation is intense and I look forward to seeing how much I can take.
One thing my wife did when she was figuring out giving me foot-jobs was pray about what would work – in the moment. I thought that was really cool
I agree that talking and watching each other are great ways to learn about DH’s preferences but trying now things can lead to whole new experiences too. I’ve seen some videos (I won’t reference them here because some would see them at too erotic!) where the woman does some incredible things that neither my DH nor I would have ever thought of. But now that I incorporate some of those, my DH just loves it, even asking me occasionally to do one or more again and again.
Bottom line, there a lot of good ideas of things to try. Being open to those can be very rewarding!