DW finishing HJ

    Question for other DW’s (but DH’s are encouraged to answer too) … when giving DH  a hand job (and not a quickie- but passionate and/or erotic play time), as he is reaching PONR …. do you slow down hand speed, maintain same speed or speed up to facilitate his O and ejaculation?

    And also during  that sequence of events, does your grip loosen, stay same or tighten?

    Lastly, once he is done, do you continue your handy work to induce some past-O tease/torture or not ?.

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      I think the answers here show how individual men are about this.

      The easy way to figure it out is to ask him to masturbate while you watch. Start with what he does and explore from there.

      California King Answered on November 13, 2019.
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        Interestingly, the  graph shows that the older the age, the more that stimulation is ok/welcomed after an orgasm. This makes sense (true for me) since my orgasm isn’t as strong as in my younger years, my erection is less hard, and the nerve endings less sensitive (spent). Studies have shown that as men age, their overall penile sensitive lessens.

        However, contrary to male refractory research (older men take longer before they are ready and able to go again) there have been times that I can have a 2nd orgasm within minutes. Mrs. Oldbear or I can continue to play around without any discomfort and it can lead to more pleasure.

        My theory is that my 1st O is not as intense as in my younger days, so there remains a little fire power. Any other men find that they can re-generate fairly easily as they’ve aged?

        On the floor Answered on November 13, 2019.

        The age correlation on that is not as strong as I expected it would be, but it is there.

        From all I have read, the ability to climax again in a short time is more about the man than his age. The time gets longer for everyone with age, but those who were fast at 30 are still going to be fast compared to other men at 40, 50 and older.

        on November 14, 2019.
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          When I get close, she takes her hand off and I have to finish myself. She does not want semen on her hand at all.

          California King Answered on September 12, 2019.
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            I’m with “Hungry” on this. That post-orgasm stimulation is intense and I look forward to seeing how much I can take.

            One thing my wife did when she was figuring out giving me foot-jobs was pray about what would work – in the moment. I thought that was really cool

            Twin bed Answered on September 12, 2019.
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              My wife will slow down, loosen the grip, and stroke with one hand while cupping my lower part with the other hand.

              Queen bed Answered on November 13, 2019.

              Oh wow, that is hot!

              on November 13, 2019.
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                I agree that talking and watching each other are great ways to learn about DH’s preferences but trying now things can lead to whole new experiences too.  I’ve seen some videos (I won’t reference them here because some would see them at too erotic!) where the woman does some incredible things that neither my DH nor I would have ever thought of.  But now that I incorporate some of those, my DH just loves it, even asking me occasionally to do one or more again and again.

                Bottom line, there a lot of good ideas of things to try.  Being open to those can be very rewarding!

                Fell out of ... Answered on November 13, 2019.
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                  Found this from an old survey –

                  Men's Sex Changes With Age

                  California King Answered on November 13, 2019.
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                    She definitely speeds up. She’ll also keep going after until I relax my body, which is after ejaculation and then some follow on spasms ( is that what someone else called “electric shock?”  Also, CO is great.

                    Queen bed Answered on January 11, 2020.
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                      Wife continues to stroke and collects it.

                      The other night we were just manually stimulating each other and she wiped my semen on her privates after I came so she could come for her turn.

                      On the floor Answered on January 12, 2020.

                      Oh wow, my wife does not want semen on her hands, arms, legs. Vagina is the only place!

                      on January 12, 2020.
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