DW finishing HJ

    Question for other DW’s (but DH’s are encouraged to answer too) … when giving DH  a hand job (and not a quickie- but passionate and/or erotic play time), as he is reaching PONR …. do you slow down hand speed, maintain same speed or speed up to facilitate his O and ejaculation?

    And also during  that sequence of events, does your grip loosen, stay same or tighten?

    Lastly, once he is done, do you continue your handy work to induce some past-O tease/torture or not ?.

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      1–I never thought about it; I think I probably speed up a bit.

      2–My grip has to always stay somewhat loose. DH for some reason does not care for lube with HJ, though I think I would prefer to use it. But it’s his choice.

      3–Nope. He’s WAAAAY too sensitive and doesn’t tolerate additional stimulation. 🙁

      Under the stars Answered on September 7, 2019.
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        I vary my speed throughout, but keeping a strady pressure, I think.

        When he’s getting close to PONR, he often starts thrusting and I keep my hand steady and/or assist, I guess by instinct?!

        Afterwards, I often keep on for a bit, until ‘forced’ to stop, and he collapses totally in a laughing spell. I love, LOVE that laugh!

        Under the stars Answered on September 7, 2019.

        That “forced stop – love the electric snaps they feel when we keep going for a bit

        on September 15, 2019.
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          Generally, she keeps the same speed but starts flicking the frenulum as I ejaculate. It produces some very intense sensations and really makes the orgasm awesome.

          California King Answered on September 7, 2019.
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            For this DH, at the PONR and during the O, slower, firmer, and lengthier strokes work best. After the orgasm subsides, it’s hands-off! Immediate sensitivity sets in and any touch is painful.

            Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on September 7, 2019.
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              For me it works best to change things up during. But once I get close, it’s best to keep up a firm more rapid motion. After the O, I like continued stimulation for some time but at a much slower speed. That usually leads to a good laugh. My wife particularly likes that part.

              Double bed Answered on September 7, 2019.
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                Probably more than half the time I’ll take over and finish myself. When I was younger I couldn’t take stimulation once the O arrived, but now I feel ripped off if DW doesn’t keep going through it and beyond.

                Fell out of ... Answered on September 8, 2019.
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                  when giving DH  a hand job (and not a quickie- but passionate and/or erotic play time), as he is reaching PONR …. do you slow down hand speed, maintain same speed or speed up to facilitate his O and ejaculation?

                  In general I would say speed it up. It enhances the excitement of the coming O. Also if its comfortable for both of you direct his penis towards a part of your body like the face or breasts. It can be very alluring for a husband to ejaculate on his wife.

                  And also during  that sequence of events, does your grip loosen, stay same or tighten?

                  Personally keeping the grip the same is more desirable. It can be easy to squeeze too tightly and that can make it unpleasant.

                  Lastly, once he is done, do you continue your handy work to induce some past-O tease/torture or not ?

                  After O I am pretty sensitive down there so only slow, rhythmic motion that quickly dies down is desirable after an O.

                  On the floor Answered on September 11, 2019.
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                    We use lubricant to get the nice and slippery feeling. As I get close she gets more focused on the long up/down stroking and tightens her grip slightly. Sometimes she speed up as well, but I tell her to slow down again to maximize pleasure. She stops and just hold still as I ejaculate since I get very sensitive at that point.

                    Hammock Answered on September 12, 2019.
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                      When I get close, she takes her hand off and I have to finish myself. She does not want semen on her hand at all.

                      On the floor Answered on September 12, 2019.
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                        I’m with “Hungry” on this. That post-orgasm stimulation is intense and I look forward to seeing how much I can take.

                        One thing my wife did when she was figuring out giving me foot-jobs was pray about what would work – in the moment. I thought that was really cool

                        Queen bed Answered on September 12, 2019.
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