DW strong dislike of condoms
My wife just gave birth to our son 7 months ago and so right now we are in the process of using condoms as birth control because it is too early for another child. This issue that we have is that our feeling goes down a lot when we have to use a condom. So in order to have a lasting experience, I will go bare until I feel that I may be close to an organism. This way it does break our flow but it helps us to connect better in the beginning. Also, it iritates her a lot when I finish because she says it feels how when rubbing, when in the middle of PIV action it is no problem but it is just when I go to resume ofter orgasim. Is there a way to help with her feeling?
You could try using myone condoms https://www.myonecondoms.com/ They supply condoms in different sizes, as you may find that the standard size doesn’t fit your penis very well.
Also try using lubricant, as it sounds like part of the problem is that your wife’s natural lubrication isn’t quite enough.
Yes, use plenty of lube. But, my wife didn’t like them either and thought they irritated her. We used the pull out method for 3 or 4 years and it worked, you just have to do it every time and not get too close to your orgasm before pulling out or it will be very difficult!
You are not the only one. We tried condoms after our first baby was born and had the same experience.
To be honest with you, just like @Ron, we tried various things and couldn’t find any BC method that worked for us, for one reason or another, so we ended up me pulling out, assisted by DW’s finishing me with MS.
Now, post menopause, this is no longer an issue but I sympathise with you, DW hated condoms too.