More a suggestion than a question.
Not sure if you’re into female edging but if you are, here’s a great game my DH and I discovered. The rules are simple. He has a stop watch app on his phone and uses a vibrator on me for a total of fifteen minutes. He has to hold the vibrator on me for the whole fifteen minutes before I’m allowed to orgasm. Every time I’m close, I yell “Stop” and he stops the timer and takes the vibrator away. When he resumes with the vibrator, he starts the stop watch again. After a total of fifteen minutes of vibrator time, I can orgasm.
Last time we did it, I had to yell “Stop” 17 times before the timer finally counted down the fifteen minutes and I could orgasm. OMG, what an intense orgasm it was!
Hope you give it a try!
Do you not run into sensory overload/numbness? I have found with too much vibe (usually from starting it too soon, before I’m really ready for it) I’ll get numb and my clit withdraws before I get to the O and then it’s pretty much a lost cause. (Much less of an issue when I’ve already peaked once and want repeats.)
New_Wife, thanks for sharing this great approach to edging.
Similar to those who asked about over stimulation, I wonder about that. But I’m curious, does your DH stimulate only your clit for 15 minutes? Or does he roam around your lips, etc too?
Vibe might numb. There’s an activity I’d like to play with my wife but she is not into being tied up. Tie her up, then do something like that, I mean edge her, but then when it is time for her to orgasm, don’t let her, just keep edging her over and over again until she is a crying, begging, puddle of goo, and then let her orgasm till she can’t stand it and keep on going.
It sounds like fun if she would do that to me, too.
The game we do, can involve restraints if you both are OK with that, but doesn’t have to.
Using the vibe touching lightly, or firmer, steady or moving, on for a while and then off, all just build excitement with little chance of numbing, at least for me. The better the husband knows his wife, the more fun this will be. An what better way to get to know her!!!