Eyes Wide Open
Often I have watched my wife’s face during our lovemaking. Her expression at orgasm adds to my pleasure. Have any of you watch your spouse and do you enjoy this as well?
I seldom do because my husband’s aim is to simultaneously O. For me to focus to climax, I have to have my eyes closed.
I know that he often likes to watch me. In certain positions I have had to be intentional to turn my face towards him so he can watch me, rather than turn it away and feel more comfortable myself. That sounds so simple, but it’s actually a hard thing to do.
Yes, depending on the position (but mirrors can help!) we both love to watch each others facial expression and hear each others sounds at the moment of orgasm(s). One of the big reasons why we don’t strive for simultaneous orgasms and rarely do 69!
Most often, we take turns (90% of the time she comes first) watching each other in the throes of ecstasy. We give each other the unbridled and undistracted comfort to enjoy our orgasm with complete concentration on ourselves. This means our eyes are closed and our expressions of delight (facially and verbally) are uninhibited as we orgasm for the visual delight the watching spouse.
I usually have my eyes closed during sex especially as either of us is getting close to orgasm as I can focus and concentrate better that way, I’ve tried a couple of times to keep my eyes open but its a fight, it seems instinctual to close them. I have watched dh a few times but for me hearing his sounds as he gets close to and orgasms are more of a turn on for me than watching his face.