Eyes Wide Open

    Often I have watched my wife’s face during our lovemaking. Her expression at orgasm adds to my pleasure. Have any of you watch your spouse and do you enjoy this as well?

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      I seldom do because my husband’s aim is to simultaneously O. For me to focus to climax, I have to have my eyes closed.

      I know that he often likes to watch me. In certain positions I have had to be intentional to turn my face towards him so he can watch me, rather than turn it away and feel more comfortable myself. That sounds so simple, but it’s actually a hard thing to do.

      Under the stars Answered on November 25, 2019.
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        I like to watch the expressions on her face…but more specifically, I like to hear her giggle…After she O’s, if I keep going for another minute or two, she’ll start to giggle…that’s far better than a facial expression

        On the floor Answered on November 25, 2019.
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          I love watching my wife’s facial reactions when I am performing OS on her or when I am using a toy on her.

          Queen bed Answered on November 25, 2019.
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            It is amazing to watch DW’s facial expressions during the build up to an O and then to watch how it changes when she does. Because she typically has multiples before moving to PIV, I get to watch this several times each session 😀

            Under the stars Answered on November 25, 2019.
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              Yes, depending on the position (but mirrors can help!) we both love to watch each others facial expression and hear each others sounds at the moment of orgasm(s).  One of the big reasons why we don’t strive for simultaneous orgasms and rarely do 69!

              Fell out of ... Answered on November 26, 2019.
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                Most often, we take turns (90% of the time she comes first) watching each other in the throes of ecstasy. We give each other the unbridled and undistracted comfort to enjoy our orgasm with complete concentration on ourselves. This means our eyes are closed and our expressions of delight (facially and verbally) are uninhibited as we orgasm for the visual delight the watching spouse.

                Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on November 26, 2019.
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                  Yes, I notice it and love it. I also notice his breathing patterns.

                  Queen bed Answered on November 28, 2019.
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                    DH is not very verbal, so his facial expressions are my main feedback. I do enjoy being able to tell he is experiencing extreme pleasure.

                    Under the stars Answered on November 25, 2019.
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                      I usually have my eyes closed during sex especially as either of us is getting close to orgasm as I can focus and concentrate better that way, I’ve tried a couple of times to keep my eyes open but its a fight, it seems instinctual to close them.  I have watched dh a few times but for me hearing his sounds as he gets close to and orgasms are more of a turn on for me than watching his face.

                      On the floor Answered on November 26, 2019.
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