Was reading a question from a soon to be wife and what type of lingerie to she should wear on her wedding night and reminded me of my wife’s attire. She wore a thong for the first time to bed that night and she wears the same thong every anniversary night. It is a great reminder of our first night together and how we have grown as lovers from that day forward. Anyone else experience similar connections?
@JLoydH: First of all, if it seems appropriate to you, tell her I certainly hope there is not a cut-off for age appropriateness to wear sexy things, because I’ve been shopping online for the past two days in anticipation of my doctor’s release for our Grand Restart! 😀
Second, if you decide to give buying for her another go, maybe give thought to how she will feel in your selected style, not just how she will look. Particularly if she has any body issues. For example: Tight, clingy garments can make us plumper ladies feel stuffed and awkward. Underwires without cups can leave breasts feeling exceptionally saggy, but cups without underwires can shift off-target and look all wrong. A lot of lingerie has spaghetti straps, but they often slide off my sloped shoulders, so t-backed items are more comfortable for me. Lace can be itchy against bare skin, satin can be clingy with static, and very sheer fabrics can tear easily if it gets caught under knees or elbows. Straps and fasteners can shift around, getting tangled or cutting into delicate places. Oh, and snaps are a pain when you start “growing out of” the teddy because they don’t stay snapped!!
It’s highly unlikely that your wife is as finicky as I am; I’m just pointing out that (in my opinion at least) lingerie is definitely designed to be looked at, not lounged in! I told my DH that if he wants me to wear it, it either has to be more comfortable or come off quicker!! 😉
My DH was very sentimentally attached to what I wore on our honeymoon, but I am very sensitive to the scent old fabric gets and I could not eradicate it from that garment no matter what laundry tricks I tried. I just can’t feel sexy when what I am wearing is making me sneeze.
My DW likes to joke that every new pair of lingerie she puts on is my favorite. LOL
Generally if DW puts lingerie on it means she’s feeling sexual ( which isn’t easy for her) so I know it will be a special time. As for the “special type” of lingerie I really like panty-less chemises that accentuate her breasts and have a short skirt that covers her nether regions. The knowledge that she is “open” is very arousing. After foreplay this allows for her to quickly hop on top or for me to hike the skirt and take her from behind. The visual and “manly feeling” of intercourse with the lingerie still on is a major turn on.
About 20 yrs ago, my DW had a tight-fitting teddy with a snap-crotch that I absolutely loved. She “outgrew” it about 10-12 yrs ago and I asked her to buy herself a new one, but alas, she won’t and insists that it’s not appropriate for her/our age. I have never had any luck buying clothes, esp negligee, for her.
My #1 favorite thing is nylons. I call it “lingerie on display.” Usually nude or black. As a leg-man, I love it when she wears a shorter skirt, and nylons look and feel sexy. If its pantyhose, she’ll usually go without panties and cut a hole in the crotch. Nuf said.