We use a bullet vibe almost always, more as an aid (to help make every experience “successful”, aka an O for me) rather than as a toy (use to have fun, give variety, play, etc.). What I consider a toy that we both like to use, is a penis sleeve.
The only toy I really use by myself is the Satisfyer Pro.
My Wifey loves her Womanizer. It uses light pulsing suction rather than vibration. She has a difficult time reaching her O sometimes and this thing rarely disappoints, as long as we remember to charge it! Vibrators can sometimes leave her sore for a few days, but the suction seems more gentle. 5/5, best toy we ever bought! We also really like our WeVibe because we can both enjoy it during PIV.
When I am with DW, we use the Magic Wand, although lately we have tried the eroscillator. The wand can sometimes make her overly sensitive, while the eroscillator typically does not since it uses a ‘side to side’ motion rather than a vibrating motion (it is rather like an over-sized electric toothbrush). When DW is gone, I sometimes use a sleeve, but mainly just my hand.
We use the Satisfyer Pro 2 and it works every time. It has to be the favorite among seven other vibrator types. It has that light sucking action that is so very different for her. The others are ok, good enough, and pretty good. The Satisfyer Pro 2 is tops for some reason.
We enjoy Doc Johnson’s American Bombshell Tango B-7. It works well for FE. For “outside” finishes she prefers the Satisfyer Pro 2 over YHJ knock-off that seems to be a little too intense. A sleeve is our other favorite because it helps delay my finish and allows us to move through PIV positions.