Feelings after depositing semen
As a wife, I primarily feel joy because I want him to feel pleasure. He works so hard for us, and I am grateful to be able to provide him those moments of release.
I also feel so much closer to him, knowing there is that lingering part of him that is still with me.
Finally, accepting that part of him magnifies my desire to be submissive to him. It rejuvenates my prayers to be the wife that he needs.
I guess I’m an exception because I do. It’s a tangible evidence of our physical as well as emotional connection. We both express pleasure in my ejaculation inside of her… the more, the better and honestly, the only benefit of less frequent intercourse is that my “well doesn’t run dry” as fast. Maybe it’s because (soon to be 66) I may be older than the average husband on this board.
Before my wife’s menopause and hysterectomy we thought about me getting a vasectomy and joked about the possibility of me “firing blanks”…. and we still refer to my semen dripping from her afterwards as “those little towheaded boys” (she bore me three sons.)
P.S. – the only downside to “more” is that she feels compelled to wash the sheets more frequently LOL (even when we use a towel)
@Slipthegrasp, there is a whole genre out there of stories, porn, etc, of men impregnanting women. I would say that it ties to this question. I can’t say I am the expert on this, but I can understand why it would make a man feel more masculine, powerful &/or having more vitality.
I regret the early years of our marriage when I felt the need to clean up so thoroughly afterward. Honestly it was probably a remnant of that pre-marriage need to hide any hint of sexual arousal (I was often over-lubricated from the heavy making out we couldn’t seem to resist) and I just couldn’t change gears from “NO SEX!!” to “Enjoy as much sex as you want!”
Now I treasure that token of our intimacy, that little souvenir of him, and relish the fragrance of our combined scents until the next time I shower. I do usually blot the bulk of what comes dribbling back out so it doesn’t make a cold wet spot I have to lay in, but even that I do less and less.
I am blessed with a good solid manly man and have always felt like PIV was a claiming, a planting of seed. I have even spoken to him in the midst of things about “planting his flagpole” like some conquering king of a new territory. (Yes, I just set feminism back 250 years.) One of the (many) painful parts of infertility was that I could not give my DH the joy of watching his seed grow in my belly and be the visual proof of his virility (which, as SC said is very big in a lot of romance novels–not that that means we should think this way, but just that it proves we do).
I don’t know if I feel more masculine but DW definitely always felt a strong desire for me to ejaculate inside her. She is rarely verbal during our lovemaking (only moans and groans) but at the point of O she often implored me pretty passionately to spurt inside her. I could quote some of her words but I think that would push this forum post into the territory of erotic literature…
Does it have something to do with impregnation? Quite possibly since our daughter was probably a result of one of these sessions.
Likewise on some occasions, I readily admit, after making love I watched her leaking and it gave me a bit of strange visual pleasure to see my deposit appearing on her V. (Does anybody else find this fascinating?)
I guess I am just grateful that DW has no aversion to my semen and feels no need to jump in the shower (as I heard some women do).