Finishing On Your Wife
My answer to one of the questions from yesterday got me to thinking. Guys, do you like to finish on your wife? It’s not a regular part of our LM-ing, but every so often I like to do it. Mostly, it’s on my wife’s breasts. But once or twice I’ve done it on her face or stomach. And now that we’ve added AS to our mix I’d like to pull out some time and finish on her butt.
Ladies, is this something you enjoy too or do you do it because it’s a turn on for your husband? It’s not my wife’s favorite, but she goes full in when she consents which heightens my enjoyment.
I actually very much enjoy the erotic feeling of having him finish on various parts of me. It taps into feelings of being “marked as his” and of a sensuous playfulness (like someone mentioned, erotic finger painting). The part I don’t like is cleaning up after we’re all done, and the fact that I also crave the oneness of him finishing inside, but his refractory period makes it a hard choice; one or the other, never both. For the first objection, my best solution is shower play–instant clean-up! As for having to choose, we’re still working on reaching a frequency that is great enough that I don’t begrudge every non-PIV finish. I would like to propose an experiment where for 7 days we have fun, experimental, I don’t necessarily have to O but he can do whatever he wants sex every morning and then romantic, sensuous, hot, make me feel like a ravished sex-kitten LM every night. How about it, DH?? 😀 ;D 😀
Yes, I like to finish on my wife. Very much so. She is fine with it too. We have done it on various parts of her body. @SC, never thought of her feet though! Each to their own. 😉
She doesn’t like it in her hair! I totally understand that. We have never intentionally done it on her face…. Those times have been fine with her too 😀
I wouldn’t call it a part of our love making per se. Sometimes it just happens(stuff has to land somewhere), but it isn’t an intended result so much as a side effect. On a very rare occasion, I will use it as finger paint just to add to the fun.
By far, my preference is to have my DH finish in me rather than on me. I get a great deal of pleasure and joy from feeling him orgasm when he’s inside. That said, there are times when I’m OK with him finishing on me, back or stomach/breasts, just because it is extra erotic for us when we do it. I’m not into facials and, fortunately, neither is my DH.
My husband never showed interest in it, until recently (thanks to reading TGH blog). He just told me a couple of weeks ago that he would like to do a “facial”, “pearl necklace”, and even finish on my feet , sometime. He got the feet in on our trip.
We used to do it regularly and still do it sometimes. It started as mutual masturbation when we were going out, then turned into a form of family planning and we both realized that we quite liked it too.
My wife was never into hormonal contraception, so after some tentative attempts we realized that pulling out wasn’t just a practical solution, it was very erotic too. So during her fertile days I used to pull out and she either finished me off herself or let me ejaculate on her. I am blessed with a wife that does not have any aversion to my sperm, in fact finds it quite sexy and intimate (her words). Having said that, we avoid the face and hair, for practical reasons. Another favourite place is her vulva. She pulls her labia apart and I ejaculate on her clitoris. It’s a real visual feast.