Firm grip needed

    This question is prompted by an observation – unless I have a firm grip on the shaft  of my penis, I feel that my ejaculation is “incomplete”.  When my DW and I first started having PIV sex, she had her legs wide open and whilst I had no problem having an orgasm, I often felt that “not all of it came out”, or like I did not empty properly. This can sometimes  create a slight tension in my lower abdomen.

    Fortunately the issue was soon resolved, I just ask DW to close her legs before I finish and then it feels perfect!

    Is is just me or do other men also have the same experience?

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      I was the same way for about 10 years, not sure why, but i found it difficult to orgasm from just regular sex.  I couldn’t always finish from sex, so my wife would either manually finish me or I would finish myself. Kind of frustrating.

      California King Answered on December 7, 2019.

      My husband found his own firm grip let him orgasm more easily and intensely. So it doesn’t sound like an isolated situation.

      on December 7, 2019.

      Thanks, it sounds like the same thing.

      on December 10, 2019.
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        How often do you masturbate? Could it be part of the reason?

        California King Answered on December 7, 2019.

        Not very often but I think you might have a point. My DW used to finish me off using her hands, as we used to use the withdrawal method for family planning. (No need now as the fertile years are behind us.) So maybe I got conditioned.

        Still, no complaints.

        on December 10, 2019.
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