22. Virgin groom.
Honestly it was a bit overwhelming to me having sex with an actual woman. I had an idea in my head of how it should go but things in practice were different than theory. Looking back it definitely wasn’t in my top 10 in terms of pleasure but emotionally it was wonderful.
I would say I enjoyed it.
24 groom and virgin. So was my wife, who was 22. We enjoyed it as much as we could, though we didn’t have actual PIV intercourse until 6 weeks after our wedding night, and it was still somewhat painful for her until we after we had our first baby. After that, things got really good and have been pretty much always since then.
16 years old with my girlfriend.
Did I enjoy it?:
Physically yes. I’m amazed that she did not get pregnant because we did not use condom.
Wife was a virgin.
Did I enjoy it?
Yes because I was making love to the one I loved deeply. It was painful for her and as we continued over weeks, this did improve.
I was 21, it was our wedding night, and it was first time for both DH and me. Physically, it was about what it should be for two inexperienced virgins; emotionally it has seldom been better. There’s something about coming together that first time after all that waiting. I knew I was on birth control, but I was still halfway convinced that what we had just done was so magical that we just MUST have created life!
Obviously, I did not get pregnant that first time or any time after, but I have recalled those moments during and after our first time many many times over the years with much joy and satisfaction.
My first sex was on our wedding night only a few years ago. Some aspects were really enjoyable because she is very sweet and she is a beautiful woman. Other aspects, I was tired, it was rushed, and I couldn’t keep an erect state. I was very sad and disappointed and it caused a bit of a rift early on in our marriage. I blame my previous porn use for faulty expectations of first sex. However, God is doing wonderful things in my life and marriage as I seek Him and pursue my wife with each new day. There is still some frustration at how my wedding night went since I had so much excitement about it growing up, even before I knew who I would marry. I also think my first sex came later than most people so my hormones weren’t as strong and it was a bit of a let down in that sense as well. An approximately 30 year old man who works hard and has lots of adult life stresses and some chronic health issues simply does not have the sexual potency and vigor of a teenager! But at least those days were passed in virginity and I was able to give that to my wife.
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